Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone

 "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.

"Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two or you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."

- Matthew 18:10-20

Yesterday we read that at that time (just after Jesus' second revelation to them that He would be killed and on the third day rise again) the disciples came to Jesus, saying, "Who then is greatest in the kingdom of heaven?"  Then Jesus called a little child to Him, set him in the midst of them, and said, "Assuredly, I say to you, unless you are converted and become as little children, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven.  Therefore whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.  Whoever receives one little child like this in My name receives Me.  But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to sin, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were drowned in the depth of the sea.  Woe to the world because of offenses!  For offenses must come, but woe to that man by whom the offense comes!  If your hand of foot causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you.  It is better for you to enter into life lame or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet, to be cast into the everlasting fire.  And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you.  It is better for you to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes, to be cast into hell fire."

 "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost."  We see Jesus' reference to the little ones in yesterday's reading (above).  My study bible explains that little ones include all who are simple and humble, those who are poor in spirit in the Church.  St. John Chrysostom comments that not only the saints, but all people, have guardian angels.  But, my study bible says, the angels of humble people have greater boldness and more honor before the face of God because of the humility of the person that they guard.  It is not the nature of God, but the weakness of human beings, that requires the service of the angels to help guide us to God.

"What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish."   My study bible comments that, unlike earthly shepherds, Christ sees such value in one sheep that He will leave the others are risk to save it.  The ninety-nine sheep represent the righteous who remain faithful to God (Luke 15:7).  According to some Church Fathers, this is also an image of the Incarnation:  the ninety-nine represent the angels in heaven.  But Christ came from heaven in order to pursue the one sheep -- humankind -- who had fallen into corruption and sin on earth.

"Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two or you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."  Here Jesus gives a formula for mutual corrective discipline in the Church, and exercised in three expanding stages.  Sin and correction remain private, except in the case where the offender refuses to repent.  All correction has to be done with enormous care and humility -- the highest concern is the salvation of the offender (see 1 Corinthians 5:5, Galatians 6:1).  Nonetheless, correction must take place so that the sin does not spread to others as well.

We often forget how wise Jesus is when He speaks about correction -- and moreover, demonstrates this by His actions.  Repeatedly we have seen Him give correction to His disciples in private, and before today's passage when He teaches them about correction in the Church (see this reading, for example).  Frequently Jesus' "corrections" come in the form of teaching privately to the disciples away from the crowds, or possibly explaining a parable they don't understand.  When Jesus tells Peter, "Get behind Me, Satan!" He is already speaking privately to him, and away from the rest of the disciples.  We don't know what other incidents may have happened, but these are given to us freely in the Gospels, so that we all may know and understand:  the disciples aren't perfect either, theirs is a growth of faith, but we also learn Jesus' way of caring and nurturing, both for the disciples and the little ones who will come in the future.  I have personally had occasion to think a good deal about this lately, as the social media platforms on which people have been forced to communicate even more frequently under lockdown for coronavirus do not lend themselves easily to private correction or dialogue.  Everything is in a public platform.  The wisdom of Christ's advice for personal correction before public becomes lost -- and paradoxically, possibly more true!  Even the "public" in Jesus' correction example is the expanding community of other brethren, members of the Church, starting with a small group of two or three, and only later to the whole of the Church.   He does not extend this to the wider community of the whole public of those outside the Church, except to teach us how to understand one who doesn't want a true and loving correction.  But on social media, there is rarely room for private correction, or time to think about it.  Everything is done in front of a great audience, and even more problematic, before a group of one's peers or friends and acquaintances.  This dynamic -- as Jesus so wisely understood -- makes responses of rage, anger, and defensiveness so much more likely.  It also encourages bullying, just as schoolyard battles in front of the rest of the kids do.  Let us consider what work we might need to do to apply Jesus' teachings in our own lives.  The correction first in private seems so important, but also in our modern context, so is the admonition to understand that not everyone shares our faith nor the intimacy and understanding in which it shelters us and couches our possible disagreements.  Let us endeavor to live what He teaches and apply it as best we can.  Life is for learning.  None is perfect, least of all myself.  But we are meant to grow in Christ's wisdom.  Let us be attentive  to it.  Once again, Christ has couched these teachings in the context of care and nurturing of the "little ones" who will make up His Church.  We endeavor to avoid giving scandal for their sake -- and for the sake of possible future believers who were St. Paul's concern.  We might put all of Christ's teachings on forgiveness into this context as well.  Let us note that Jesus does not say all offenses are fine nor that we should ignore them.  But He gives us a way to cope with offenses, including forgiveness and "letting go" of our own rage and anger, even to the understanding that this might include needing separation.  But no teaching of Christ is separate from the other, all form a cohesive whole, in which we endeavor to grow in wholeness ourselves.