Friend, how did you come in here without a wedding garment?

 

 And Jesus answered and spoke to them again by parables and said:  "The kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who arranged a marriage for his son, and sent out his servants to call those who were invited to the wedding; and they were not willing to come.  Again, he sent out other servants, saying, 'Tell those who are invited, "See, I have prepared my dinner; my oxen and fatted cattle are killed, and all things are ready.  Come to the wedding."'  But they made light of it and went their ways, one to his own farm, another to his business.  And the rest seized his servants, treated them spitefully, and killed them.  But when the king heard about it, he was furious.  And he sent out his armies, destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city.  Then he said to his servants, 'The wedding is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy.  Therefore go into the highways, and as many as you find, invite to the wedding.'  So those servants went out into the highways and gathered together all whom they found, both bad and good.  And the wedding hall was filled with guests.  But when the king came in to see the guests, he saw a man there who did not have on a wedding garment.  So he said to him, 'Friend, how did you come in here without a wedding garment?'  And he was speechless.  Then the king said to the servants, 'Bind him hand and foot, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'  For many are called, but few are chosen."

 

- Matthew 22:1-14 

 

Yesterday we read that Jesus taught in the temple (speaking to the chief priests and elders who quizzed Him regarding His authority):  "Hear another parable.  There was a certain landowner who planted a vineyard and set a hedge around it, dug a winepress in it and built a tower.  And he leased it to vinedressers and went into a far country.  Now when vintage-time drew near, he sent his servants to the vinedressers, that they might receive its fruit.  And the vinedressers took his servants, beat one, killed one, and stoned another.  Again he sent other servants, more than the first, and they did likewise to him.  Then last of all he sent his son to them, saying, 'They will respect my son.'  But when the vinedressers saw the son, they said among themselves, 'This is the heir.  Come, let us kill him and seize his inheritance.'  So they took him and cast him out of the vineyard and killed him.  Therefore, when the owner of the vineyard comes, what will he do to those vinedressers?"  They said to Him, "He will destroy those wicked men miserably, and lease his vineyard to other vinedressers who will render to him the fruits in their seasons."  Jesus said to them, "Have you never read in the Scriptures:  'The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief cornerstone.  This was the LORD's doing, and it is marvelous in our eyes'?  Therefore I say to you, the kingdom of God will be taken from you and given to a nation bearing the fruits of it.  And whoever falls on this stone will be broken; but on whomever it falls, it will grind him to powder."  Now when the chief priests and Pharisees heard His parables, they perceived that He was speaking of them.  But when they sought to lay hands on Him, they feared the multitudes, because they took Him for a prophet. 

And Jesus answered and spoke to them again by parables and said:  "The kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who arranged a marriage for his son, and sent out his servants to call those who were invited to the wedding; and they were not willing to come."  My study Bible comments that, like the preceding parables (from yesterday's reading -- see above, and also the parable of the Two Sons in Wednesday's reading), today's parable also proclaims the transfer of the Kingdom from the faithless Jews to the Gentiles.  Today's is set as a joyful wedding banquet (see also Matthew 25:1-13), an important theme, as Christ is often called the "Bridegroom" (Matthew 9:15, John 3:29), and also St. Paul will use a marriage analogy for the Kingdom (Ephesians 5:21-33).  The repeated sending out of the servants, my study Bible says, shows the Father's great desire to have His people with Him in the Kingdom.  This first group is interpreted to be Moses and those with him, while the second group in the verse that follows is composed of the prophets.  These groups call those initially invited -- the spiritual history of Judaism we can read in the Old Testament Scriptures.  The third group later in the parable represents the apostles sent out to the Gentiles, those who were not initially invited, but are now called.

"Again, he sent out other servants, saying, 'Tell those who are invited, "See, I have prepared my dinner; my oxen and fatted cattle are killed, and all things are ready.  Come to the wedding."'  But they made light of it and went their ways, one to his own farm, another to his business.  And the rest seized his servants, treated them spitefully, and killed them."  The oxen, my study Bible comments, represent the sacrifices of the Old Covenant, while the fatted cattle represent the eucharistic bread of the New Covenant.  The Greek word for fatted in better translated "wheat-fed," according to my study Bible -- or even more literally it is "formed from wheat" (as in Luke 15:23, in the parable of the Prodigal Son).  Therefore, both the Old and New Covenants are fulfilled at the wedding of Christ and Christ's Church.

"And he sent out his armies, destroyed those murderers, and burned up their city."   St. John Chrysostom is cited by my study Bible as explaining that this detail of the king who burned up their city is a prophesy by Jesus of the destruction of Jerusalem by the Romans in AD 70, therefore attributing this destruction to an act of God rather than simply that of human beings.  Nonetheless, waiting forty years -- a full generation from the time of Christ -- gave to an entire generation a chance to repent.  

 

"Then he said to his servants, 'The wedding is ready, but those who were invited were not worthy.  Therefore go into the highways, and as many as you find, invite to the wedding.'  So those servants went out into the highways and gathered together all whom they found, both bad and good.  And the wedding hall was filled with guests.  But when the king came in to see the guests, he saw a man there who did not have on a wedding garment.  So he said to him, 'Friend, how did you come in here without a wedding garment?'  And he was speechless.  Then the king said to the servants, 'Bind him hand and foot, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'"   My study Bible explains that the wedding garment would have been provided by the king, and therefore the man had no excuse for not wearing one.  So, he is speechless.   His refusal to wear the garment that was provided is an image of those who refuse God's hospitality, or who want God's Kingdom on their own terms.  Specifically, the garment refers to the baptismal garment, and by extension, a life of faith, repentance, virtue, and charity, as my study Bible explains it.  Without these one will ultimately be cast into outer darkness. 

"For many are called, but few are chosen."  As in Matthew 20:24-28, we recall that for many is an Aramaic expression which means "for all."

It is perhaps useful for us to consider that for the Jews, the Gentiles and their ways were generally considered an abomination, especially in terms of power-hungry and ruthless rulers that characterized them.  So to be taught this parable, in which so many are called from the highways (suggesting the highways by which one could travel the Roman Empire), must have been shocking on a great many levels at the time of its hearing.  It might be relevant for us also to consider that this word translated as "highway" is also the same word Jesus used for Himself, translated as "way" -- as in "I am the way, the truth, and the life" (John 14:6).   Of course, by now Jesus has already taught a couple of rather stunning parables, and in yesterday's reading referred to Himself as the Stone which will become the chief cornerstone, warning of judgment in His language.  In yesterday's reading we were told that "when the chief priests and Pharisees heard His parables, they perceived that He was speaking of them."  They even sought to lay hands on Him, but feared the multitude, because the people think Jesus is a prophet.  So the leaders have clearly understood Jesus' meaning in this respect.  But let us consider that out of the pagan world, with all of its differences from Jewish spiritual history, would be the ones called to Christ in the New Covenant.  Our Bibles all contain what we call the Old Testament Scriptures, and testify to the entirety of the Church understanding that our spiritual heritage is from Judaism, as, in the words of Christ Himself to the Samaritan woman in John's Gospel, "Salvation is of the Jews" (John 4:22).  If we look closely at this parable, however, it isn't simply the Jewish religious leaders who are warned here about the great wedding banquet to come.  For also those called from the highways are themselves at risk of being cast into outer darkness; where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth (in language already known from the Old Testament Scriptures).  That is, we who presently call ourselves the faithful, are also in danger of being cast out of this wedding feast.  If we look at the excuses altogether, we see those who refuse the invitation and simply aren't willing to come, others who  are too busy with their worldly affairs and "made light of" the invitation.  Both of these excuses are also quite familiar to us in our modern world, our spiritual lives not taken seriously at all but considered extraneous or not that important compared to the exigencies of the day when it comes to livelihood or property, many simply disdaining to bother at all and dismissing religious matters (or specifically Christ and the Church) out of hand as not worthy of much attention.  But the wedding garment puts us into another frame, of one who was called and comes to the wedding, but is unprepared due to a refusal of what has been offered.  In this I believe we can read not simply the importance of living out our faith here in this world, but also of the great and precious nature of the gift itself.  If we can't recognize its value, if we can't assign the worthiness and substance that is the true nature of the gift to what we're offered, then we're going to miss it.  We're going to go through life having failed to understand the worth of what we're offered, and even in the context of this wedding feast, the true substance of life.  And there we come to what seems to be quite common:  a failure to understand and assign the real value of what we're offered as spiritual life through Christ and the mission and ministry of the Church in its broadest sense, including the work of the Holy Spirit and all that is available to us -- saints, angels, prayers, and the richness of what can go into the creation of the wedding garment.  This, in my experience and corner of the world, is all too common among so many contemporaries for whom a spiritual history of Christianity is discarded or devalued.  And so the parable is prescient, and gives us a picture not only painted for these religious leaders face-to-face with Christ and His ministry, and seeking to seize Him and eliminate Him, but also for us today.  Jesus gives us a picture of reality, and paints an image of great loss in failing to actually live out what He offers to us, to assign it worth and value, to take it seriously and pay attention.  It is a loss indeed to lose the garments of beauty with which we could be clothed if we but work at this and take it seriously.  Like Adam and Eve in the beginning of the Scriptures, who realize their nakedness after they've ignored the guidance of God, we are capable of being clothed in the most beautiful garment fit for this ultimate cosmic royal wedding feast.  But will we accept to fulfill it, live it, accept it as the gift of the beauty, goodness, and truth we're offered in the invitation?