"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let hi have your cloak also. And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away."You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brethren only what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."- Matthew 5:38–48
Currently we are reading through the Sermon on the Mount, found in St. Matthew's Gospel. This week serves as preparation for Lent. Yesterday we read that Jesus taught, "You have heard that it was said to
those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that
whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery
with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it
out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of
your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. And
if your right eye causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you;
for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than
for your whole body to be cast into hell. And if your right hand causes
you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable
for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be
cast into hell. Furthermore
it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a
certificate of divorce.' But I say to you that whoever divorces his
wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit
adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits
adultery. Again
you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear
falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.' But I say to you,
do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by
the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city
of the great King. Nor shall you swear by your head, because you
cannot make one hair white or black. But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and
your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a
tooth.' But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps
you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. If anyone wants
to sue you and take away your tunic, let hi have your cloak also. And
whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who
asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away." My study Bible comments that, in contrast to the Old Testament (Exodus 21:24; Leviticus 24:20; Deuteronomy 19:21), warns us not to resist violence with more violence. Evil can only be overcome by good, my study Bible notes, which keeps us free from compromise with the devil and can bring our enemy under the yoke of God's love. My study Bible offers a story from the Desert Monks: A saint of the desert once found his hut was being looted of its meager possessions; he knelt in the corner praying for the bandits. When they left, he saw that they had not taken his walking stick. He pursued them for days until he could give them his stick as well. When they saw his humility, the bandits returned all to him and were converted to Christ.
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate
your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who
curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who
spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your
Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good,
and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those
who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do
the same? And if you greet your brethren only what do you do more than
others? Do not even the tax collectors do so?" My study Bible comments that if we should be freed from hate, sadness, and anger, then we are able to receive the greatest virtue, which is perfect love. The love of enemies isn't a mere emotion. It includes decision and action. It means to treat and see our enemies as the closest members of our own family (see 1 John 4:7-21).
"Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect." My study Bible calls this verse the summary statement of all that has preceded it in the Sermon on the Mount. It says that the Christian can indeed grow in the perfection of God the Father (Ephesians 4:13), which is shown by imitating God's love and mercy (compare to Luke 6:36).
There are many ways in which Christ's words in this section of the Sermon on the Mount are difficult, particularly in a modern context. If we walk through a city where homelessness and addiction are common, we're beset by the question of what our money goes to should we loan or give to all who ask (in other words, we might be funding an addiction, something that is not good for the person we're ostensibly helping). We've all seen and heard of senselessly violent crime, or encounters on a subway, or any number of frightening things we wouldn't want to embrace with generosity. Be all these things what they are, there is one thing that is made very clear by Christ in His teachings, and that is that we are not bound by what others do in terms of our response to the world. We are not simply slaves to whatever trespass or bad deed another may do. Indeed, Christ is suggesting to us that we take a proactive stand for love, that we determine our own actions and initiatives to come through imitation of God the Father, for there is no other command, worldly or otherwise, that can take precedence over such. And this is where the love of God becomes the determiner for us of what our own perfection may look like. It is in this kind of freedom, as my study Bible suggests, that we determine what our lives are like, what our priorities are, what we will do in life. We should approach these teachings by first understanding that "an eye for an eye" was a concept that was meant to limit violence at the time it was given. All we have to do is read the story of Lamech, and his vengeance of seventy-seven times to understand the picture of a world consumed with vengeance and violence for which the Law of Moses was given. But Jesus is teaching that even this limited sense of vengeance is not really justice or righteousness. It's not perfection. Let us also keep in mind that Christ's teaching on being perfect is also an evolving and growing process of faith within us. It consists of those steps in our faith practice that must consist of all the ways we shore up and build up our faith and our reliance on Christ. We do this through prayer, through worship, through all the practices the Church offers us to help us on this way, including traditional Lenten practices such as fasting and making more time for God: to consider our lives, increase our prayer, emphasize our almsgiving, and all the ways that we might practice such, for they are myriad. Life is about learning to call upon God to find our way, to see our way ahead as a light in the darkness. For this world might be very dark indeed if we are betrayed by friends or family, harmed by sickness or ill health, dismayed over cruelties or injustice. These are the things that make it so essential to find our freedom to choose God's way for us, the time and space to pray, to accept God's version of perfection and not the world's demands we see through social media, or competing narratives of acquisition and triumph. Let us consider the truly good, and find our way to that kind of perfection.