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Thursday, February 27, 2025

Let your "Yes" be "Yes," and your "No," "No." For whatever is more than these is from the evil one

 
 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right eye causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.  

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
 
- Matthew 5:27–37 
 
This week we are reading through the Sermon on the Mount, in preparation for Lent, which begins next week.  Yesterday we read that Jesus taught, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."
 
"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."  The issue here, my study Bible tells us, is not the God-given mutual attraction of men and women, but the selfish promptings of lust.  Sin does not come out of nature, it says, but out of the distortion of nature for self-indulgence.  When thoughts enter our mind involuntarily, those are not sins.  They are temptations.  They only become sins if they are held, built up, entertained.
 
"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right eye causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  Of course, Jesus is speaking figuratively here.  He is using these images to teach us how important it is to take decisive action to avoid sin and continue in purity.  Notice He speaks of the right eye and right hand; these would be even our "favored" parts of ourselves, the things we most depend upon.  Even these, Jesus says, can be deadly to us.  If we consider these images, we'll note that an eye can gaze with an improper covetousness on things that it shouldn't, a hand can reach out to take what doesn't belong to us.  

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."  In contrast to the easy access to divorce under the Mosaic Law, my study Bible comments, and because of the misuse of divorce in Christ's time, Jesus repeatedly condemns divorce (see also Matthew 19:8-9) and emphasizes the eternal nature of marriage.  That Jesus mentions the possibility of divorce due to sexual immorality is a teaching that shows us that marriage -- like other relationships -- can be destroyed by sin.  

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."   My study Bible comments that trust cannot be secured by swearing an oath by things that are not in a person's possession anyway, but only by simple integrity. 

If we continue our thoughts from yesterday's reading, we can start with the last part of today's Gospel passage, in which Jesus teaches us to let our "Yes" be "Yes" and our "No," "No."  Once again, in preparation for Lent, we might take these words of Christ to suggest an important practice of economy with our words.  What do our words mean?  How do we use them?  If we want to take a closer look at Christ's words about swearing oaths we have only to look at the story of the death of John the Baptist (see Matthew 14:1-12).  Essentially, in that story, although the King understood John the Baptist to be a holy man, and although he felt very badly, it was because of an oath he swore in front of his nobles and "great men" of his kingdom -- and the rash sway of his own emotions by the dancing of his queen's daughter -- he gave the orders to behead John the Baptist and present his severed head in a grotesque display of heedless and vicious excess.  In that case, Herod's swearing before the "grand" people of his court, and his own vainglory involved in doing so, complicates this story.  But it also adds to our understanding about why we do best to stick to humility in economizing with our words.  We don't need to make vain proclamations about what we think or believe, and we don't need to make them public or excessively vehement.  For to do so is to step into a trap of vainglory, and to risk being unable to step down from such a place when it's necessary.   The humility of using only our necessary words to make a point, to defend ourselves, or to make a public statement is something that will stand us in good stead, help us to learn how to use our language well, and keep us in a safe and good path that our Lord asks of us.  So, while we think about abstaining during Lent, and risking temptations, let's add this precaution to our own use of language, and help ourselves to become more thoughtful and precise in so doing.  In an age where vehement language and excessive swearing is the stuff of internet memes and viral videos, let us consider what it is to be the opposite:  to learn how to use language with richness and real aptitude.  Perhaps we will become more distinguished in our capacity for expression by doing so, in imitation of the integrity of our Lord.
 
 
 
 

Friday, April 26, 2024

But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one

 
 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.  

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
 
- Matthew 5:27-37 
 
We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5 - 7).   Yesterday we read that Jesus taught, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."
 
  "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."  My study Bible comments that the issue here is not the God-given mutual attraction of men and women, but rather the selfish promptings of lust.  It notes that sin does not come out of nature, but rather out of the distortion of nature for self-indulgence.  It's very essential to remember that thoughts that enter the mind involuntarily are not sins, but they are temptations.  They become sins only when they are held and entertained.  

"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  This is not meant literally, but Christ rather refers to decisive action needed to save -- as in a necessary amputation because of spreading infection or disease.  Jesus is likening our need to take decisive action to avoid sin and continue in purity to such medical emergencies.

 "Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."  My study Bible notes that in contrast to the easy access to divorce under the Mosaic Law, and because of the misuse of divorce at that time, Jesus makes repeated condemnations of divorce (see also Matthew 19:8-9).  His emphasis is on the eternal nature of marriage.  My study Bible adds that the possibility of divorce on the grounds of sexual immorality shows that marriage can be destroyed by sin.  In the Orthodox Church, it explains, divorce is discouraged but allowed as well as second marriage which is seen as a concession to human weakness and a corrective measure of compassion when a marriage has been broken. 
 
 "Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  My study Bible comments that trust cannot be secured by swearing an oath by things that are not in the possession of human beings to begin with -- but only through simple integrity.

In a modern (perhaps Western) context, we often hear swearing but not necessarily in the serious context of an oath.  So frequently in expressions of this kind, words in a modern context seem almost to lose their meaning.  But here Jesus speaks even of the seriousness of taking an oath.  What that indicates to us, first of all, is the seriousness of the language that we use.  As remarked upon in yesterday's reading, Jesus gives us a sense of how powerful our words are, but not in the ways that we necessarily think so.  Most importantly, our words and our use of words reflect back upon us, and will be significant in the time of judgment.  Our words make an impact within and among our relationships, communities, families.  But perhaps even more significantly, our words also have an impact upon the state of our souls, where we sit with God, and who we are in the world.  My study Bible comments that for Christ, it is integrity that is of the highest value, a quality that is at once precious, and seemingly devalued in modern life.  Christ's teaching, "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one" makes this explicitly clear to us.  Speaking about divorce can be also taken in this context, for marriage is a covenant, a kind of oath.  We give our word of faithfulness.  So let us first consider the importance of integrity in this context.  Marriage is not easy, and it demands mutual sacrifices of us.  It asks us to place the marriage itself in higher importance to oneself as an individual.  These things take commitment, flexibility, creativity, and an understanding of how exactly both sacrifice and even suffering are part of life.  The integrity which Christ describes He showed throughout His own life, and in so doing, teaches us how we need to meet our own suffering, responsibilities, and even the joys of life as well.  


Friday, May 13, 2022

But let your "Yes" be "Yes," and your "No," "No." For whatever is more than these is from the evil one

 
 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's thrown; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
 
- Matthew 5:27-37 
 
We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5 - 7).  In yesterday's reading, Jesus taught, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."
 
  "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."  My study Bible explains that the issue here is not the God-given mutual attraction of men and women, but the selfish promptings of lust.  Sin does not come out of nature, it says, but out of the distortion of nature for self-indulgence.  Thoughts that enter the mind involuntarily are not sins, but temptations.  They only become sins when they are held and entertained.  It's important to emphasize the selfish component of what is being discussed here, which leads to viewing and using other human beings in a materialistic way.

"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  My study Bible says that this imagery isn't to be taken literally, but rather refers to decisive action to avoid sin and to continue in purity.  Jesus repeats this imagery in Matthew 18:8, in discussions regarding the use of power and notions of what constitutes "greatness" in His Church.  One's right eye is considered precious, but if one's gaze is meant to covet or own another, or to look upon another with kind of lust that leads to abuse, it is necessary to make a correction.  One's right hand may reach out selfishly to harm or to seek to grasp what does not belong to oneself, to reach beyond a proper boundary.  The imagery implies that something one cherishes may be causing one to sin grievously, and thereby must be let go.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."  In contrast to the easy access to divorce under the Mosaic Law, and because of the misuse of divorce in that day, Jesus repeatedly condemns divorces (see also Matthew 19:8-9), and emphasizes the eternal nature of marriage, my study Bible tells us.  The possibility of divorce on the grounds of sexual immorality makes it evident that marriage can be destroyed by sin, such as abuse.  
 
 "Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's thrown; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  My study Bible comments here that trust cannot be secured by swearing an oath by things that are not in the possession of human beings anyway -- the only answer is simple integrity.  

Jesus tells us all, "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  It would seem that these words of advice from Christ put a great deal of emphasis on meaning -- on lending true meaning to the language we use, our communication with others.  For if our "Yes" is truly "Yes," and our "No" is truly "No," then what we have done is maintain a meaning and integrity that goes beyond simply personal responsibility.  We will have, in fact, restored language to its power and potential, and even more importantly, to its truth.  And there we get to the crux of what Christ means and who He is.  Jesus will teach us that He is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6).  He will call the Spirit, the "Helper" whom He will send, the "Spirit of truth" (John 16:13).  At the same time, He calls the devil the "father of lies" and says that "there is no truth in him" (John 8:44).  In the Revelation we're told that those who will remain outside the city of God, with no access to the tree of life, will include "whoever loves and practices a lie" (Revelation 22:14-15).  So, in Christ's statement here in the Sermon on the Mount regarding our use of language, there is a great deal to be discerned about what it means to have integrity, especially in terms of whether or not the words that come from our lips contain integrity and meaning, are blessed with truth, and do not constitute lies.  So much, in fact, hangs on the need for our words to convey their true meaning, that Jesus includes these specific teachings in the Sermon on the Mount, and advises us to lay aside swearing and oaths, and all manner of seeming vehemence, and simply let our "Yes" be "Yes," and our "No" be "No."  For when an individual begins to allow one's own word to become corrupted with lies and dissembling, with self-delusion or misleading statements, that leads to a corrupt way of life, corrupt practice.  When this becomes a habit for a person, or within a family, or a society, then the false and misleading use of language becomes an increasingly corrupting influence.  We can see this throughout history in the use of language as a political tool, the corrupting use of images to convey a false sense of values where there is none, of integrity where it doesn't exist, of promises that turn out to be lies.  In Nazi Germany, what was called the Ministry of Public Enlightenment and Propaganda relentlessly cranked out self-serving images and slogans in deliberate effort simply to gain and hold power.  The same can be true of many totalitarian regimes in various countries and using various political systems.  And, of course, with the use of corrupting language, the same can happen in a country we consider a democracy -- simply because a "Yes" is not really "Yes," and "No" is not simply "No," but false and misleading statements, slogans, and platforms are used to mislead and to corrupt.  It is we who must make up our minds to follow Christ in His advice about our own language and its integrity as the only certain way to begin to put a halt to ever-widening circles of corruption that are started simply through propagandistic lies, slogans meant to mislead, language used simply to gain power through half-truths and smokescreens.  While the world will continue to entertain misleading notions and utopian promises, we can begin to look at Christ's truth -- for He is the One who doesn't sell us short and doesn't sugar coat a mission of truth.  We look to Him to teach us and guide us, even within a maelstrom of competing images, interests, and public voices designed to turn us one way and another, to gain someone power and authority, to point us in one direction that serves a false god with a narrative that takes us down a rabbit hole whose destructive effect on human beings we only see with hindsight.  If we start to practice His way, to let our "Yes" be "Yes" and our "No" be "No," then we will have begun to stop the spread of the falsehood, to take a stand against misleading, to start with ourselves to join in His integrity.  It is Christ who says to us that whatever is more than this is from the evil one.



 
 


 
 

Tuesday, September 21, 2021

But I say to you, do not swear at all

 
 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
 
- Matthew 5:27-37 
 
We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount.  In yesterday's reading, Jesus taught:  " "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."
 
 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."  My study Bible explains that the issue here is not the God-given mutual attraction of men and women, but the selfish promptings of lust.  Sin doesn't come out of nature, it says, but out of the distortion of nature for self-indulgence.  Thoughts which enter the mind involuntarily are not sins, they are temptations.  They become sins only when they are held and entertained.  

"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  This imagery, of casting off an eye or hand, is meant to be illustrative of decisive action to avoid sin, and to continue in purity.  An eye may glance with covetousness and greed, a hand may reach out for what does not belong to it.  We must consider Christ's message as vivid in order to convey the importance of our inner state of mind and our awareness of where we are led.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."  My study Bible comments that in contrast to the easy access to divorce under the Mosaic Law, and because of the misuse of divorce in His time, Jesus repeatedly condemns divorce (Matthew 19:8-9) and emphasizes the eternal nature of marriage.  The possibility of divorce on the grounds of sexual immorality is actually a very important teaching, because it tells us that marriage can be destroyed by sin -- indeed sin, in its very nature, is abusive to relationships and hence to community.  Broken relationships are part of what is often called the brokenness of the world.  The early Church would expand cause for divorce to include other specific abuses of the marriage relationship.  My study Bible comments that while recognizing divorce as a serious sin, the Orthodox Church allows divorce and a second marriage as a concession to human weakness and as a corrective measure of compassion when a marriage has been broken.  A third marriage is permitted under specific, limited circumstances, and a fourth is never permitted.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  My study Bible comments that trust cannot be secured by swearing an oath by things that are not in the possession of human beings anyway, but only by simple integrity.

I'm intrigued by Christ's statement on swearing oaths.  Just like the significance of our inner thoughts and the importance of our awareness of them (and understanding of the potential in them), Christ is trying to teach us about the significance of our words and how important they are.  We don't need to swear oaths at all, according to Jesus.  Let us pay attention to the powerful things He wants us to recognize:  to swear by heaven is to implement the very throne of God into what we wish to attest to.  To swear by the earth is to put into our own oath God's creation.  Jerusalem is known still as the Holy City, the one that belongs to God the great King.   This phrase, "the great King," is found in Psalm 48.  It is one that praises God, and the "city of our God," which is Jerusalem.  The psalmist writes, "God is in her palaces; He is known as her refuge."  It is the "city of the Lord of hosts."  As Christians, we understand the fulfillment of the Law and the Prophets in Christ has also meant that we understand the fulfillment of this spiritual history to be in the heavenly Jerusalem, the city of God, and the place out of which the Gospel, the Word of God, comes.  This is the fulfillment of the Lord of hosts, the presence of God the Holy Spirit "in our palaces" indwelling the world as in the tabernacle.  Jesus is telling us that our own integrity must be substantial, equivalent even to these powerful things, of which we are not the author, nor are we in control.  But our own word, our own integrity, can be that powerful if we stick, in humility, with what is simple and true.  He says it more perfectly than anyone else with His own simple turn of phrase:  "But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' "  And He adds, "For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  What I take this to mean is that when we get beyond a simple focus on our own integrity, and in the humility we have in the light of God, we invite in the grandiose, the thoughts that lead us astray that He's already warned us about, all the things that gather about to tempt us to be more than we really need to be if we are following His word and command.  The whole world will seemingly conspire to ask us to be more:  to be more powerful, to have a greater looking spouse, or home, or attractive and impressive sounding job, and especially to carry more social clout in whatever way that might happen or manifest in our particular circle of the world.  But Christ asks us to get down to what really matters and count on that as all the world's wealth:  that our words -- even the simplest of them -- carry meaning and value through our own integrity.  This is the rock bottom of His call to cast away from ourselves the thoughts that lead us astray with selfishness or greed at their root, looking with the eye and grabbing with the hand what seems to be better, or where the grass must be greener.  We start off with the heart and learn to treasure integrity, a purity and simplicity He has preached from the beginning of this Sermon.  For this is where our real treasure and value will be, and this is all we really have in our control.


 
 

Friday, April 27, 2018

But let your "Yes" be "Yes," and your "No," "No." For whatever is more than these is from the evil one


 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."

- Matthew 5:27-37

We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount, chapters 5-7 of Matthew's Gospel (beginning with Monday's reading).   Yesterday we read that Jesus taught, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."

  "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  Jesus quotes from the Law regarding adultery (Exodus 20:14, Deuteronomy 5:18).  My study bible says that what is at issue here that Jesus discusses isn't the God-given mutual attraction of men and women.  Rather Jesus is speaking of the selfish promptings of lust.  Sin isn't what nature gives us; sin is rather the distortion of nature for self-indulgence, a kind of greed.  Thoughts that enter our minds involuntarily are not sins.  They are temptations.  They are only sins if held, entertained, nurtured.  Jesus speaks of the importance not only of self-knowledge and self-awareness, but our own capacity for self-mastery -- to put away what feels like a part of us but really isn't healthy for the whole of us, and would tend to drive the whole in a self-destructive path.  My study bible says that Jesus' striking imagery is not to be taken literally; it rather refers to decisive action to avoid sin and to continue in purity.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."  In Jesus' time, there was easy access to divorce under the Mosaic Law, and a great deal of misuse of divorce.  In fact, there was dispute about divorce between various parties, with the Pharisees coming closer to Jesus' point of view.  Jesus repeated condemns divorce because of misuse (see also 19:8-9).  Instead, He emphasizes the spiritual and eternal nature of marriage.  It is a way of understanding the union of persons with immortal souls.  The possibility of divorce on the grounds of sexual immorality expresses the concept that marriage can be destroyed by sin.  Even our relationship to God is subject to abuse; in this sense it is a fundamental concept of community and love to understand what can be broken by sin and hence abuse.   The implications of the necessity and power of repentance and forgiveness also are evident here in this example.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."   My study bible says here that trust cannot be secured by swearing an oath by things that are not in man's possession anyway.  The only assurance is by simple integrity.

What does it mean that our word is our bond?  In marriage we give our word as commitment.  In some sense, all of today's reading focuses on integrity.  What does our word mean?  In yesterday's reading, Jesus gave us the example of name-calling as akin to murder.  Today we consider what marriage vows mean, and how bonds can be broken by sin, by abuse.  In this light, it is not so strange also that Jesus gives us a teaching about swearing oaths.  By what is our word worth something?  Where is our integrity found?  It may be strange to consider, but once again we come back to the importance of language, of words.  Are our words worth listening to?   Ironically, perhaps, in the age of the internet, the impact of our words, the evaluation of whether what we have to say is worthy of giving voice to those words, is both more needful and more forgotten than ever.  As fast as a person can tweet out a message or post something on Facebook (or even a blog like this one), our words slip into an expanding whirlwind of what it is that passes for commerce, participation, and community.  Rather than drawing us together, thoughtless iterations draw us apart, making actual communication seemingly lesser and lesser.  News which used to be counted upon for factual understanding of events in our world now takes on characteristics of egging on one side or another, for who knows what actual purpose or interest -- and increasingly rather than being able to sort facts for truths we can count on, "news" takes on the appearance of pure conflict without enough substance to give us actual analysis or ability to sort fact from fiction.   It all comes back to Jesus' words here about integrity, what we will swear by, what we can put our own trust into, and what our commitments mean.  When language becomes abused, when our word means nothing but is meant merely to sell or attract attention or distract attention from elsewhere, meaning goes by the wayside.  We're no longer able to trust, and for the public trying to find its way to truth and understanding, obscurity becomes more profound, reality hidden far behind publicity.  Perhaps the most healing act we are capable of making in such confusion is the measured use of our words, and most especially a high value placed on our own integrity.  As my study bible points out, in the end we really own nothing but our own word.  Let us make certain, in the whirlwind of chaos in which we may find ourselves, that our own words have the worth He asks of us.






Tuesday, September 26, 2017

If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you


 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."

- Matthew 5:27-37

We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount, which begins with Matthew chapter 5.  Yesterday we read that Jesus taught:  "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leaven your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."

"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."  In yesterday's reading, Jesus quoted and then elaborated on the statute against murder.  In today's He quotes the statute against adultery (Exodus 20:14, Deuteronomy 5:18).  My study bible says that the issue here is not the God-given mutual attraction of men and women, but rather a selfish prompting of lust.  It says that sin doesn't come out of nature, but rather out of the distortion of nature for self-indulgence.  When we have thoughts that enter our mind involuntarily, that is a temptation, not a sin.  But something becomes a sin only when such thoughts are held and entertained.  The key idea here is selfishness.  To lust after something or someone is to desire possession.

"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  My study bible says that the imagery here isn't to be taken literally, but rather refers to decisive action to avoid sin and to continue in purity.  Jesus will use similar imagery in 18:8.  If we think about the eye in the context of what Jesus is saying, this is about how we look at things.  Do we desire selfish possession?  To get something (or someone) in order to use it in some way?  The hand reaches out to grasp and grab; again Jesus' reference is to a form of theft, prompted by an indulgence in desire.  We begin within ourselves, not with the simple letter of the Law, in order to prevent loss of the soul, and life in Christ.  Jesus suggests a voluntary sacrifice of what can feel like a true part of ourselves, in order to truly save ourselves.  My study bible calls it "decisive action to avoid sin."

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."   Jesus' words are in contrast to the easy access to divorce under Mosaic Law, and He also references the misuse of divorce in His time.  He repeatedly condemns divorce (see also 19:8-9, in which Jesus speaks of the "hardness of your hearts"), emphasizing the eternal and holy nature of marriage.  Here the possibility of divorce on the grounds of sexual immorality tells us that, like other things, marriage can be destroyed by sin.  The early Church would extend some grounds for divorce.  Jesus' emphasis is on relationship and relatedness; not on possession.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  My study bible says that trust cannot be secured by swearing and oath by this that are not in a person's possession anyway.  Only simple integrity creates trust.  Once again, there is an emphasis here on the internal, not the external.  A type of purity of heart is referenced here, in which our external actions reflect an internal condition.

What is personal integrity?  What does it mean to each person?  In Christianity, we follow the teaching of the Old Testament, that we are each created in God's image.  What does that mean exactly?  Jesus as eternally-begotten Son of God, Incarnate as human being, gives us an image of God via His human life.  (See John 14:8-9, in which Jesus says, "He who has seen Me has seen the Father").  As such, we who are created in the image of God have an integrity to cultivate that reflects our capabilities to become more "like God," with qualities we learn from Christ.  Jesus speaks against pure selfishness as motivation in life, and so the cultivation of who we truly are is not about a selfish demand for acquisition and possession.  To feel an attraction for someone is "natural" in the sense of what is given by God.  To take this into a form of desire for possession or use, and to cultivate that within ourselves, is not.  Jesus speaks against divorce in terms of the "hardness of hearts" He mentions in 19:8, not as a consequence of abuse in a marriage, but rather as a consequence of simple displeasure with one treated as a sort of property.  (We should remember that only men could initiate divorce.)  Jesus emphasizes the process of the internal shaping the external, and the need to understand ourselves and change what needs changing to more truly reflect this image in which we were created.  "Hardness of heart" surely indicates a failure of growth, of wisdom, of righteousness.  The powerful injunction to swear no oaths reflects this emphasis on real integrity and what that means.  It isn't a question of simply reflecting one's desires, but rather a question of fidelity to the image in which we're created.  If our "yes" means "yes," and "no" means "no," then we are not false to others.  We reflect a type of fidelity to our own meanings and values; we testify truly to ourselves and our character.  Jesus' emphasis is on the cultivation of such character.  The drastic images of self-mutilation teach us that we must cut off self-centered impulses that lead us away from the true image of the self as creation of God.  We're headed in the wrong direction with a kind of selfish goal or drive.  Rather than living a righteous or right-related life, this will lead us to abuse, to the breaking of relationship.  Being true to a bond of relationship also falls into the category of speaking truly without need of swearing by an external.  The emphasis here is on the heart, the center of the self -- and the clear teaching is the malleability of that heart, our capacity for growth and change and repentance, to more truly reflect the image in which we're created.  How do you turn to Christ for help with that?  Does integrity of this sort count in your life?  Does it make a difference in your world and community?





Thursday, February 23, 2017

If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell


 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.

"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."

- Matthew 5:27-37

We are reading through the Sermon on the Mount, in Matthew chapter 5.  We began with the Beatitudes, the blessings of the Kingdom.  Jesus then taught about the righteousness of the Kingdom.  In yesterday's reading, He began to explain what this means, how it is a depth and fulfillment of the Law:  "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not murder, and whoever murders will be in danger of the judgment.'  But I say to you that whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment.  And whoever says to his brother, 'Raca!' shall be in danger of the council.  But whoever says, 'You fool!' shall be in danger of hell fire.  Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way.  First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.  Agree with your adversary quickly, while you are on the way with him, lest your adversary deliver you to the judge, the judge hand you over to the officer, and you be thrown into prison.  Assuredly, I say to you, you will by no means get out of there till you have paid the last penny."

 "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart."  My study bible says that the issue here isn't the God-given mutual attraction of men and women, but rather the selfish promptings of lust.  Sin, it tells us, doesn't come out of nature but rather out of the distortion of nature for self-indulgence.  The thoughts that enter our minds involuntarily are not sins.  Rather they are temptations.  They only become sins when they are held and entertained.

"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."  Jesus uses the analogy of an eye or hand as sin that is nurtured and indulged beyond temptation.  In a certain sense, the analogy holds even further:  when we are covetous we cast an eye upon and view things or people a certain way.  A hand may wish to reach out and take what isn't rightfully or properly truly ours.  Habitual thoughts or desires can feel so much a part of ourselves that they are like a hand or eye.  In this sense Jesus is encouraging each one of us to decisive action to avoid sin.  The analogy acknowledges the difficulty, but it also stresses the need and the cost of the failure to do so.

"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."  Jesus repeatedly addresses the question of divorce in the Gospels (see this recent reading from Mark's Gospel).  Under Mosaic Law, there was very easy access to divorce for Jewish men.  But Jesus condemns divorce in light of what He sees as misuse of the Law.  Instead, He emphasizes the eternal nature of marriage and the depth of the marriage bond.  He does allow for divorce on the grounds of sexual immorality, teaching us how sin can destroy relationships.

 "Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."  My study bible says that trust cannot be secured by swearing an oath by the things that aren't truly in our possession anyway.  It's only simple integrity in which trust is based.  If we studiously pay attention to Jesus' communication, we see that He embodies this Himself.

In each of Jesus' teachings, we can see that sin is a kind of toxin.    It poisons the well of relationships, of communion.  The things Jesus addresses all seem to have to do with depth of communion and relationship.  Marriage is a bond given by God.  In some sense, all communion is a reflection of Jesus' teaching on the two great commandments (see this recent reading from Mark's Gospel).  The first is a love of God with all one's being, the second love of neighbor as oneself.  That is, our participation in the love of God via the communion of faith allows us to share in that love with others.  Marriage as sacrament given by God to create a depth of communion ("the two shall become one flesh") is one example of the two great commandments at work.  But sin can destroy any relationship; it is in itself a kind of distance and separation from God, a reflection of such.  Selfishness poisons that well of love, the ties we have with others.  Whether we speak of murder and the things that are like it (as in yesterday's reading), or a thoughtless approach to marriage that treats one partner as possession one may discard, these behaviors harm love and community.  The sort of lust Jesus speaks about is a kind of covetousness that doesn't respect the real nature of communion either, not in social terms and not in personal terms.  It treats human beings as commodities rather than persons.  In addition, Jesus speaks about swearing oaths to prove or bolster one's truthfulness.  But what it all comes down to is personal integrity.  This is the stuff of true relationship -- within oneself, with God, and with others.  If one's word is one's bond, if "yes" means "yes" and "no" means "no," then we're speaking of the possibility of trust.  And trust is everything.  It is even the real root of faith.  This sort of integrity is related to purity of heart, a lack of duplicity, where what one is on the inside is what one sees on the outside.  To be tempted to magnify anything beyond this true wealth of integrity is to endanger the bonds we have with others based in that capacity for trust rooted in such a character.  All things come back to this, where we put our trust, and how others -- even God -- may put trust in us.  It starts with the heart, the place from which we discard that which poisons the well, and the place where we align with that which develops and builds love in all its forms.  Jesus offers us a choice in His vision of righteousness.