But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her

 

 Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house.  And she had a sister called Mary, who also sad at Jesus' feet and heard His word.  But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, "Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone?  Therefore tell her to help me."   And Jesus answered and said to her, "Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things.  But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her."

 

- Luke 10:38–42 

 

 Yesterday we read that a certain lawyer stood up and tested Jesus, saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?"  He said to him, "What is written in the law?  What is your reading of it?"  So he answered and said, "'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind,' and 'your neighbor as yourself.'"  And He said to him, "You have answered rightly; do this and you will live."  But he, wanting to justify himself, said to Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?"  Then Jesus answered and said:  "A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, who stripped him of his clothing, wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead.  Now by chance a certain priest came down that road.  And when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.  Likewise a Levite, when he arrived at the place, came and looked, and passed by on the other side.  But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was.  And when he saw him, he had compassion.  So he went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine; and he set him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him.  On the next day, when he departed, he took out two denarii, gave them to the innkeeper, and said to him, 'Take care of him; and whatever more you spend, when I come again, I will repay you.'  So which of these three do you think was neighbor to him who fell among the thieves?"  And he said, "He who showed mercy on him."  Then Jesus said to him, "Go and do likewise."   

 

  Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house.  And she had a sister called Mary, who also sad at Jesus' feet and heard His word.  But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, "Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone?  Therefore tell her to help me."   And Jesus answered and said to her, "Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things.  But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her."   We know from John's Gospel that Martha and Mary are the sisters of Lazarus, whom Christ raised from the dead (John 11:1).  My study Bible explains here that Martha is not rebuked for serving, but for being distracted, worried, and troubled about many things, even as she was providing hospitality for Jesus.  But the one thing that was needed was for her to listen to Christ, to hear His words, a priority which does not exclude serving Him.   In following Christ, it explains, we serve in order to facilitate the spread of the gospel (see Acts 6:1-4).

As we have observed in various places, hospitality is something very highly praised in the history of Christianity and also in Jewish tradition.  If we look at the story of the woman who anointed Christ's feet with oil (see this reading), Jesus complains of the lack of hospitality shown Him by His host, the Pharisee who asked Jesus to dine with Him.  The great love of the woman, a known sinner who anointed His feet with oil, was praised and even shown as an example of the great hospitality that the Pharisee lacked.  But if we look at these two stories, we see a similar thread that has to do with the place in which we hold Christ -- and through Christ, of course, His teachings and commandments, and the place of God in our lives.  This is where we really need to start to define all priorities, even what love is and how we live love.  This is what Mary is doing, despite Martha's great efforts at hospitality for the Lord.  She sits at His feet -- the same feet bathed and anointed with perfumed oil as well as the sinful woman's tears -- paying close attention to what is that good part, which will not be taken away from her.  In Monday's reading, Jesus taught about the rigors and demands of discipleship, and we were given examples of those who asked to honor family duties before following Christ as disciples.  One said to Christ, "Lord, let me first go and bury my father."  Another asks of Him, "Lord, I will follow You, but let me first go and bid them farewell who are at my house."  But both of Christ's responses to what sound like very reasonable requests, no doubt, to hearers of the Gospel then, and now, are almost shockingly negative, and sound harsh.  He says to the first, "Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and preach the kingdom of God."  To the second He replies, "No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God."  There is an important common theme here about what the top priority is, what comes first that defines all else, including necessity.  It is these relationships in the Kingdom that come first, and that define all other relatedness as priority.  If we find that complicated and difficult, let us consider yesterday's reading, above, in which the two greatest commandments in the Law, as approved by Jesus, are in this order: "You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind," and "your neighbor as yourself."  This is a definition of how priorities and "right-relatedness" are settled.  We begin with love of God, and within that umbrella comes love of neighbor.  That is, how we are to love our neighbor.  Everything else is defined from this, for, as God is love, so we may learn love, appropriately, from God.  Love is not slavery nor slavish devotion to custom, but putting God first assures us that we will be guided in the proper way to honor what is meant to be honored by hospitality, for example, or family devotion.  In today's reading, Jesus does not seek to tear apart the tradition of hospitality, nor the relationship between the sisters!  But He is setting down a priority, and protecting Mary's devotion to God, putting the word of God first, that "good part, which will not be taken away from her."  We are reminded of Jesus' response to the devil during His temptation in the wilderness, when He quoted from Deuteronomy as rebuke:  "Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God" (Matthew 4:4; Deuteronomy 8:3).  Here, Mary is not shirking duty, nor sisterly affection, nor the duties of hospitality, but is rather listening to every word that proceeds from the mouth of the Lord.  In that, she has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.  Let us go and do likewise, allowing Christ's words to inform our lives, habits, customs, and choices.  For the Lord's word is that which remains and will not be taken away, even when heaven and earth pass away (Mark 13:31).