Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters' table

 

Then Jesus went out from there and departed to the region of Tyre and Sidon.  And behold, a woman of Canaan came from that region and cried out to Him, saying, "Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David!  My daughter is severely demon-possessed."  But He answered her not a word.  And His disciples came and urged Him, saying, "Send her away, for she cries out after us." But He answered and said, "I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel."  Then she came and worshiped Him, saying, "Lord, help me!"  But He answered and said, "It is not good to take the children's bread and throw it to the little dogs."    And she said, "Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters' table."  Then Jesus answered and said to her, "O woman, great is your faith!  Let it be to you as you desire."  And her daughter was healed from that very hour.

 

- Matthew 15:21-28 

 

Yesterday we read that scribes and Pharisees who were from Jerusalem came to Jesus, saying, "Why do Your disciples transgress the tradition of the elders?  For they do not wash their hands when they eat bread."  He answered and said to them, "Why do you also transgress the commandment of God because of your tradition?  For God commanded, saying, 'Honor your father and your mother'; and 'He who curses father or mother, let him be put to death.'  But you say, 'Whoever says to his father or mother, "Whatever profit you might have received from me is a gift to God" -- 'then he need not honor his father or mother.'  Thus you have made the commandment of God of no effect by your tradition.  Hypocrites!  Well did Isaiah prophesy about you, saying: 'These people draw near to Me with their mouth, and honor Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me. And in vain they worship Me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.'" When He had called the multitude to Himself, He said to them, "Hear and understand:  Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man; but what comes out of the  mouth, this defiles a man."  Then His disciples came and said to Him, "Do You know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this saying?"  But He answered and said, "Every plant which My heavenly Father has not planted will be uprooted.  Let them alone.  They are blind leaders of the blind.  And if the blind leads the blind, both will fall into a ditch."  Then Peter answered and said to Him, "Explain this parable to us."  So Jesus said, "Are you also still without understanding?  Do you not yet understand that whatever enters the mouth goes into the stomach and is eliminated?  But those things which proceed out of the mouth come from the heart, and they defile a man.  For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies.  These are the things which defile a man, but to eat with unwashed hands does not defile a man."

 

 Then Jesus went out from there and departed to the region of Tyre and Sidon.  And behold, a woman of Canaan came from that region and cried out to Him, saying, "Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David!  My daughter is severely demon-possessed."  My study Bible begins with a commentary on today's reading, explaining that this story of Christ's ministry to this Gentile woman illustrates the Jewish orientation of Matthew's Gospel.  This story is also told in St. Mark's Gospel (Mark 7:24-30).  However, there are two significant differences.  First, St. Matthew here records Christ's words regarding the lost sheep of the house of Israel (while St. Mark does not), and St. Matthew reports this woman using the title Son of David, which is a Jewish term for the Messiah (while St. Mark does not).  Christ has gone to Tyre and Sidon, a Gentile region, not in order to preach, but to withdraw from the faithless Pharisees (see His conflict with them in yesterday's reading, above).  This is confirmed in the version which appears in St. Mark's Gospel, where it's noted that Jesus "wanted no one to know" He was there (Mark 7:24), and here where Christ says He was only sent to the house of Israel.  Here also it's noted by my study Bible that this woman shows immeasurable love; she identifies so strongly with her daughter's suffering that she tells Jesus, "Have mercy on me."  She sees her daughter's well-being as her own, and her daughter's sufferings as her own.

 

But He answered her not a word.  And His disciples came and urged Him, saying, "Send her away, for she cries out after us."  But He answered and said, "I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel."  Then she came and worshiped Him, saying, "Lord, help me!" My study Bible comments that Christ refuses to answer her, not simply because she is a Gentile and Christ's ministry before the Passion is first to the Jews, but in so doing He also reveals her profound faith and love.  Several Church Fathers see the disciples' request to send her away as an attempt to persuade Jesus to heal her daughter, as if to say, "Give her what she wants so that she will leave."  Jesus' response, my study Bible says, confirms that this interpretation is correct, because He again refuses to heal her daughter, prolonging the encounter and His interaction with her.

 

 But He answered and said, "It is not good to take the children's bread and throw it to the little dogs."    And she said, "Yes, Lord, yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters' table."  Then Jesus answered and said to her, "O woman, great is your faith!  Let it be to you as you desire."  And her daughter was healed from that very hour.  Jesus has evoked this woman's love and her persistent faith through His responses; now He reveals her humility, my study Bible comments.  She accepts her place beneath the Jews, who were the chosen people of God, but she still desires a share in the grace of God.  Christ's hesitancy is not a lack of compassion, my study Bible explains, but rather a conscious means of revealing the virtues of this woman -- both to the disciples and also for her own sake.  Her ultimate acceptance by Jesus points to the gathering of the Gentiles into the Church after Pentecost, no longer as dogs, but rather as children who are invited to eat the bread of eternal life.  

 

At first we may be both stunned and offended at the way Christ responds to this Gentile woman.  We in the West in the modern world are used to a plurality of religious faiths living amongst us and entitled under our Constitutions and legal systems.  This often leads to a secular perspective, divorced from faith, that proclaims that all religions are the same.  But faith asks us for values, and it asks us for relatedness to God (or gods, as the case may be).  Faith asks us most especially for relatedness between persons, not just concepts or abstract ideas.  And this is particularly true of Christianity, for our faith is in the Lord who came to us as one of us, and had this encounter described in today's reading with the Gentile woman.  So, when Jesus says, "I was not sent except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel," He's speaking of the realities of spiritual history, and of the God of Israel who sent Him to reclaim the "lost sheep," and to offer salvation to those who already know and officially worship the God we know (and they know) from the Old Testament Scriptures.  Of course, the increasing hostility of the religious leadership (such as the scribes and Pharisees who've begun disputing with Him and whom He seeks to escape by going to Tyre and Sidon in today's reading), and the fearful notice of Herod Antipas, are factors that are leading somewhere; they lead toward the Cross, and the Cross will draw all toward Christ.  But today's reading teaches us the important things mentioned by my study Bible, despite the fact that this woman is not a Jew.  But she clearly knew the religion of the Jews, for she calls Jesus by a messianic title, "Son of David."  She also calls Him "Lord."  St. Hilary of Poitiers comments on this passage that she was likely a proselyte, of foreign origin, but seeking the religion of the Jews.  However, the demonic possession of her daughter indicates the working and presence of the demonic spirits associated with the pagan religions of Canaan, and it is her daughter for whom she seeks help.  The demonic possession is likely connected to pagan ritual practices of the time.  Thus it is the woman's faith in Christ, "Son of David," taking bold steps to try to save her daughter who has become severely demon-possessed through pagan idol worship.  This puts us in the framework of Christ's delay and drawing out of this woman's faith, compassion for her daughter, and humility before Christ.  Her boldness also paves the way for the eventual opening up of the Church to the Gentiles, those who will come from the pagan world to faith in Christ, such as Cornelius.  In this sense, all of us who come from formerly pagan historical peoples and embrace Christianity owe a great deal to this woman, who so perfectly answered Christ and had such faith in Him.  For the little crumbs which fell to her have become the stuff of life for all the rest of us.