Then the Pharisees and some of the scribes came together to Him, having come from Jerusalem. Now when they saw some of His disciples eat bread with defiled, that is, with unwashed hands, they found fault. For the Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they wash their hands in a special way, holding the tradition of the elders. When they come from the marketplace, they do not eat unless they wash. And there are many other things which they have received and hold, like the washing of cups, pitchers, copper vessels, and couches. Then the Pharisees and scribes asked Him, "Why do Your disciples not walk according to the tradition of the elders, but eat bread with unwashed hands?" He answered and said to them, "Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written:'This people honors Me with their lips,But their heart is far from Me.And in vain they worship Me,Teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.'"For laying aside the commandment of God, you hold the tradition of men -- the washing of pitchers and cups, and many other such things you do." He said to them, "All too well you reject the commandment of God, that you may keep your tradition. For Moses said, 'Honor your father and your mother'; and, 'He who curses father or mother, let him be put to death.' But you say, 'If a man says to his father or mother, "Whatever profit you might have received from me is Corban" -- ' (that is, a gift to God), "then you no longer let him do anything for his father or his mother, making the word of God of no effect through your tradition which you have handed down. And many such things you do."When He had called all the multitude to Himself, He said to them, "Hear Me, everyone, and understand: There is nothing that enters a man from outside which can defile him; but the things which come out of him, those are the things that defile a man. If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear!" When He had entered a house away from the crowd, His disciples asked Him concerning the parable. So He said to them, "Are you thus without understanding also? Do you not perceive that whatever enters a man from outside cannot defile him, because it does not enter his heart but his stomach, and is eliminated, thus purifying all foods?" And He said, "What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man."- Mark 7:1-23
Thursday, July 31, 2025
All these evil things come from within and defile a man
Saturday, February 1, 2025
What comes out of a man, that defiles a man
Then the Pharisees and some of the scribes came together to Him, having come from Jerusalem. Now when they saw some of the disciples eat bread with defiled, that is, with unwashed hands, they found fault. For the Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they wash their hands in a special way, holding the tradition of the elders. When they come from the marketplace, they do not eat unless they wash. And there are many other things which they have received and hold, like the washing of cups, pitchers, copper vessels, and couches. Then the Pharisees and scribes asked Him, "Why do Your disciples not walk according to the tradition of the elders, but eat bread with unwashed hands?" He answered and said to them, "Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written:'This people honors Me with their lips,But their heart is far from Me.And in vain they worship Me,Teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.'"For laying aside the commandment of God, you hold the tradition of men -- the washing of pitchers and cups, and many other such things you do." He said to them, "All too well you reject the commandment of God, that you may keep your tradition. For Moses said, 'Honor your father and your mother'; and, 'He who curses father or mother, let him be put to death.' But you say, 'If a man says to his father or mother, "Whatever profit you might have received from me is Corban" -- ' (that is, a gift to God), "then you no longer let him do anything for his father or his mother, making the word of God of no effect through your tradition which you have handed down. And many such things you do."When He had called all the multitude to Himself, He said to them, "Hear Me, everyone, and understand? There is nothing that enters a man from outside which can defile him; but the things which come out of him, those are the things that defile a man. If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear!" When He had entered a house away from the crowd, His disciples asked Him concerning the parable. So He said to them, "Are you thus without understanding also? Do you not perceive that whatever enters a man from outside cannot defile him, because it does not enter his heart but his stomach, and is eliminated, thus purifying all foods?" And He said, "What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man."- Mark 7:1-23
Friday, November 1, 2024
But seek the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added to you
Then one from the crowd said to Him, "Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me." But He said to him, "Man, who made Me a judge or an arbitrator over you?" And He said to them, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses."Then He spoke a parable to them, saying: "The ground of a certain rich man yielded plentifully. And he thought within himself, saying, 'What shall I do, since I have no room to store my crops?' So he said, 'I will do this: I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my crops and my goods. And I will say to my soul, 'Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years; take your ease; eat, drink, and be merry."' But God said to him, 'Fool! This night your soul will be required of you; then whose will those things be which you have provided?' So is he who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God."Then He said to His disciples, "Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; nor about the body, what you will put on. Life is more than food, and the body is more than clothing. Consider the ravens, for they neither sow nor reap, which have neither storehouse nor barn; and God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds? And which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? If you then are not able to do the least, why are you anxious for the rest? Consider the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. If then God so clothes the grass, which today is in the field and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, how much more will He clothe you, O you of little faith? And do not seek what you should eat or what you should drink, nor have an anxious mind. For all these things the nations of the world seek after, and your Father knows that you need these things. But seek the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added to you."- Luke 12:13-31
Tuesday, September 26, 2023
But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one
"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell."Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.' But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery."Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.' But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."- Matthew 5:27-37
Friday, October 28, 2022
But seek the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added to you
Then one from the crowd said to Him, "Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me." But He said to him, "Man, who made Me a judge or an arbitrator over you? And He said to them, "Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses."Then He spoke a parable to them, saying: "The ground of a certain rich man yielded plentifully. And he thought within himself, saying, 'What shall I do, since I have no room to store my crops?' So he said, 'I will do this: I will pull down my barns and build greater, and there I will store all my crops and my goods. And I will say to my soul, "Soul, you have many goods laid up for many years; take your ease; eat, drink, and be merry."' But God said to him, 'Fool! This night your soul will be required of you; then whose will those things be which you have provided?' So is he who lays up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God."Then He said to His disciples, "Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; nor about the body, what you will put on. Life is more than food, and the body is more than clothing. Consider the ravens, for they neither sow nor reap, which have neither storehouse nor barn; and God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds? And which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? If you then are not able to do the least, why are you anxious for the rest? Consider the lilies, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. If then God so clothes the grass, which today is in the field and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, how much more will He clothe you, O you of little faith? And do not seek what you should eat or what you should drink, nor have an anxious mind. For all these things the nations of the world seek after, and your Father knows that you need these things. But seek the kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added to you."- Luke 12:13-31
Saturday, March 10, 2018
All these evil things come from within and defile a man
Then the Pharisees and some of the scribes came together to Him, having come from Jerusalem. Now when they saw some of His disciples eat bread with defiled, that is, unwashed hands, they found fault. For the Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they wash their hands in a special way, holding the tradition of the elders. When they come from the marketplace, they do not eat unless they wash. And there are many other things which they have received and hold, like the washing of cups, pitchers, copper vessels, and couches. Then the Pharisees and scribes asked Him, "Why do Your disciples not walk according to the tradition of the elders, but eat bread with unwashed hands?" he answered and said to them, "Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written:
'This people honors Me with their lips,For laying aside the commandment of God, you hold the tradition of men -- the washing of pitchers and cups, and many other such things you do."
But their heart is far from Me.
And in vain they worship Me,
Teaching as doctrines the commandments of men."
He said to them, "All too well you reject the commandment of God, that you may keep your tradition. For Moses said, 'Honor your father and your mother'; and, 'He who curses father or mother, let him be put to death.' But you say, 'If a man says to his father or mother, "Whatever profit you might have received from me is Corban" -- ' (that is, a gift to God), then you no longer let him do anything for his father or his mother, making the word of God of no effect through your tradition which you have handed down. And many such things you do."
When He had called all the multitude to Himself, He said to them, "Hear Me, everyone, and understand: There is nothing that enters a man from outside which can defile him; but the things which come out of him, those are the things that defile a man. If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear!" When He had entered a house away from the crowd, His disciples asked Him concerning the parable. So He said to them, "Are you thus without understanding also? Do you not perceive that whatever enters a man from outside cannot defile him, because it does not enter his heart but his stomach, and is eliminated, thus purifying all foods?" And He said, "What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man."
- Mark 7:1-23
Yesterday we read that, after Jesus had sent the disciples by themselves across the sea to Bethsaida (see Thursday's reading), when evening came, the boat was in the middle of the sea; and He was alone on the land. Then He saw them straining at rowing, for the wind was against them. Now about the fourth watch of the night He came to them, walking on the sea, and would have passed them by. And when they saw Him walking on the sea, they supposed it was a ghost, and cried out; for they all saw Him and were troubled. But immediately He talked with them and said to them, "Be of good cheer! It is I; do not be afraid." Then He went up into the boat to them, and the wind ceased. And they were greatly amazed in themselves beyond measure, and marveled. For they had not understood about the loaves, because their heart was hardened. When they had crossed over, they came to the land of Gennesaret and anchored there. And when they came out of the boat, immediately the people recognized Him, ran through that whole surrounding region, and began to carry about on beds those who were sick to wherever they heard he was. Wherever He entered, into villages, cities, or the country, they laid the sick in the marketplaces, and begged Him that they might just touch the hem of His garment. And as many as touched Him were made well.
Then the Pharisees and some of the scribes came together to Him, having come from Jerusalem. Now when they saw some of His disciples eat bread with defiled, that is, unwashed hands, they found fault. For the Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they wash their hands in a special way, holding the tradition of the elders. When they come from the marketplace, they do not eat unless they wash. And there are many other things which they have received and hold, like the washing of cups, pitchers, copper vessels, and couches. Then the Pharisees and scribes asked Him, "Why do Your disciples not walk according to the tradition of the elders, but eat bread with unwashed hands?" he answered and said to them, "Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written: 'This people honors Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me. And in vain they worship Me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men." For laying aside the commandment of God, you hold the tradition of men -- the washing of pitchers and cups, and many other such things you do." He said to them, "All too well you reject the commandment of God, that you may keep your tradition. For Moses said, 'Honor your father and your mother'; and, 'He who curses father or mother, let him be put to death.' But you say, 'If a man says to his father or mother, "Whatever profit you might have received from me is Corban" -- ' (that is, a gift to God), then you no longer let him do anything for his father or his mother, making the word of God of no effect through your tradition which you have handed down. And many such things you do." My study bible notes here that the issue is not the observation of Jewish customs or traditions. Christ most certainly does not prohibit those (Matthew 5:17-19; 23:23). The real issue here is setting human tradition contrary to the tradition of God. Jesus refers to the tradition of the elders; this is a body of interpretations of the Law. For the Pharisees and the scribes, it was as authoritative as the Law, and frequently superseded it. In accordance with that tradition, offerings (called Corban) could be promised to God in a way that property or earnings could still be used for oneself, but not for others -- even one's own parents. My study bible says that secondary traditions such as this obscure the primary tradition of the Law, contained in God's commandments. Jesus quotes from Isaiah 29:13, Exodus 20:12, Deuteronomy 5:16.
When He had called all the multitude to Himself, He said to them, "Hear Me, everyone, and understand: There is nothing that enters a man from outside which can defile him; but the things which come out of him, those are the things that defile a man. If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear!" When He had entered a house away from the crowd, His disciples asked Him concerning the parable. So He said to them, "Are you thus without understanding also? Do you not perceive that whatever enters a man from outside cannot defile him, because it does not enter his heart but his stomach, and is eliminated, thus purifying all foods?" And He said, "What comes out of a man, that defiles a man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within and defile a man." My study bible says that food cannot defile a person; it is created by God and therefore pure. Evil things are not from God, and these are what defile a person.
As we are in Lent, this is a particularly pertinent time to think about Jesus' words in today's reading (and my study bible's comment that food cannot defile a person as it is created by God, and therefore pure). Historic traditions of Christian fasting vary from (and within) denomination to denomination and also from place to place. There is no fixed list of foods which are "forbidden." The tradition of fasting is not meant to denote sinfulness in terms of which foods are consumed. It is rather a tradition developed for ascetic practice, for discipleship, so that we learn that we have the capacity for choice, for self-control. We develop a capacity for detachment. It is not our appetites that control us as human beings, but we have the ability to say "no" to what looks good in order to pursue better and higher goals, and to put into practice what is best for us. We also make time for God with fasting practices -- allowing ourselves for a time to pursue thoughts and occupy ourselves with other things besides preparation of elaborate meals, entertainment, and the various efforts and labor that contribute to what is on the table. We learn that we are more than the food we eat, that there is "other food" that is necessary for full nurturing of what it means to be human. But above all, the tradition or "exercise" of fasting is meant to help us understand that we can say no to sin. (Ascetic discipline: askesis literally means "exercise" or "training" in Greek. Used for athletes and soldiers; monastics traditionally are considered "spiritual athletes," training for spiritual goals.) In fasting, the body becomes a means to learn mental discipline, to put into place the goals that spiritual life would teach. We fast so that we learn we may fast from sin. All of this is purely positive, our creation and the world purely good. As such, in the Christian tradition, there is no food that is sinful to eat. Rather, here Jesus tells us what the things are from which we can and should learn to abstain. He lists "evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lewdness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness." Not only that, but the Teacher tells us yet another dimension of sin, and one which is extremely important. These are not things, He tells us, that come from outside of us, but rather from the heart. To be a spiritual athlete then, is to guard the heart -- to keep a good watch over one's heart, to keep in mind that there are things we don't necessarily see about ourselves, and to come to terms with the fact that our watchfulness and discipline are really about our own conduct and our willingness to know ourselves better. In Jesus' loving teaching, this is not a condemnation. Rather, real sinfulness comes from an unwillingness to change what we know is wrong, a determination to prefer evil, to prefer lack of discipline, to simply not care out of deliberate ignorance and selfishness. One must repeatedly consciously nurture and choose these evil things Jesus describes to fall into a category of condemnation. We are all susceptible to the things we learn from the world -- and to taking them into our own hearts. But we have the choice to make a determination that we are not slaves to sin; we are human beings created by God in God's image, with a capacity for choice. And there we come to the discipline of fasting as a tradition of Lent. We fast so that we learn we may fast from sin. We learn that we can transcend; we're not limited by our apparent appetites and options. We in the modern world can learn a lot from the ancients; it may surprise you what powerful things fasting with the proper intention can do for one's consciousness. Let us consider the goodness and love with which these traditions are given. They are meant to bolster us, not condemn us. We do the good we know and can do, and trust that we will be shown what more comes next, like athletes training for "the good fight."
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
You have heard that it was said to those of old . . .
"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce. But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.' But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your 'Yes' be 'yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
- Matthew 5:27-37
In yesterday's reading, Jesus elaborated on the Law against murder. We are reading the Sermon on the Mount, and so far He has given us the Beatitudes, the teachings that His disciples are to be the salt of the earth and the light of the world, and then He began to build an understanding of the fulfillment of the Law and the Prophets and His own teachings on righteousness (Whoever therefore breaks one of the least of these commandments, and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven). Beginning with the statute against murder in yesterday's reading, He spoke of reconciliation and the harsh words that provoke strife -- of anger without a cause. He said, "Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift."
"You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.' But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." In yesterday's reading, Jesus expanded on the statute against murder, and spoke of strife and anger without a cause. Today's reading turns to the Law against adultery. Lust here, explains my study bible, is not the natural mutual attraction between people. This is not about involuntary temptation, but rather a deliberate cultivation of a way of thinking. And we also have to remember the statute's emphasis on relationship: this is about coveting, and ultimately destroying relationship. Let us consider the fullness of what relationship is: here, to lust is to desire to possess or use -- and, we remember, it is about a deliberate cultivation of a mindset, not simply a natural impulse. My study bible says, "Sin does not come out of nature, but out of internal self-indulgence. He who feasts on lust within himself brings sin into his heart through his thoughts. (Thoughts which enter the mind involuntarily are temptations, not sins. They become sins only when they are held onto and entertained)."
"If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell." Even if we nurture such thoughts within ourselves to the point where they seem like an important part of who we are, it's better to cast out that which isn't good for us than to corrupt who we are. This example of the "right eye" tells us something about what we view and how we view the world around us. Do we covet (in this case, a man's adulterous coveting) in ways that are spiritually unhealthy? Even when something has become a habit, it's better to break away from it, to "pluck it out and cast it from you" than to allow that way of thinking and being in the world to grow and dominate ourselves, so that we become completely identified with it. Here Jesus begins to teach the nature of the self and our need to practice repentance, personal change. Even that which we hold dear about ourselves may need re-examining and letting go of.
"Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce. But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery." Here, Jesus goes after the easy way divorce was obtained by a man in His time. It is an elaboration of His words about lust and coveting for a reason. He is talking about relationship, and ultimately His greatest concern which is love -- the relationships between people. Lust and coveting are simply about objects, property. Are we in a relationship simply for a material value? What is the purpose of marriage? Let us not forget the condition of women in the society of Jesus' time, and their dependence on marriage and family for their place in the society, well-being and survival. Note that His teaching is not absolute against divorce, but rather against its abuse in His time. My study bible notes, "Human freedom implies the possibility of sin; sin can separate husband and wife from each other, and ultimately from the body of Christ and from God Himself." So we understand that it is possible to abuse relationship in many ways, the sacrament of marriage -- and covenant with God, in many forms. But here He links lust after others with easy divorce, and the damage this does to relationship, to God's depth of promise of love and true bond between human beings; even what it is to be a whole and spiritually healthy human being.
"Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.' But I say to you, do not swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black." This teaching is about another kind of integrity, or being true to something. By what do we swear that makes our words false or true? By what can we swear to give us a true heart? Where does integrity come from? In some way, we can see again the emphasis here on relationship: who we are as people, honest or deceiving, really has to do with what is within us and how we relate or not to others. To swear, in this understanding, is to take something else to add value to our words. Instead, the value must be within us. It's also about a kind of appeal to lust or covetousness to add something to ourselves that isn't ours: we can't appropriate what doesn't belong to us. We must cultivate true value of ourselves, of what kind of person we are.
"But let your 'Yes' be 'yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one." My study bible says, "This is a well-known saying in the New Testament. Trust is secured not by an oath which exceeds Yes and No, but by inner integrity. Jesus teaches us to live in the simplicity of the present moment." And, we might add, in the truth of who we are. We are "good enough" in cultivating the humility of honesty. The emphasis here is on the real value of the heart that rests in His teachings.
In some sense, both teachings in today's reading -- regarding lust and its extension to divorce, and to swearing by that which is not ours nor a part of us -- have to do with a kind of covetousness for things we wish to add unto ourselves, but don't really belong to us at all. Jesus' teachings instead give us an emphasis on our own integrity as persons. We have the capability to "pluck out" the "right eye" that doesn't give us the right picture, doesn't see straight. In relationship to God, we can let go of limitation and behavior or ways of thinking that don't really define us well, that lead us on a path to destroy our true self-worth. To swear by things that aren't ours to swear by becomes a futile exercise in adding something to ourselves that has nothing to do with who we are. Instead, we are to cultivate an integrity of ourselves, and an understanding that our own simple "yes" and "no" are good enough, have worth and merit. In relationship, it is the same: barring real harm done to the marriage by one partner or both, we cultivate the integrity of that relationship. We don't look elsewhere to add to ourselves something dazzling, like a property we wish we had. The integrity and value lies in what can be cultivated in the inner life, through relationship God helps us to build: within ourselves, and with another person -- two hearts joined together, and all that each can bring to the relationship. So today, let us think about integrity, and what is "good enough" for God. How do we build that simplicity, honesty and integrity that God seeks of us? I think a clue is in Jesus' words about the "right eye." It depends on how we see things. Are we dazzled by an outward image of what we think we can add to ourselves? Or do we look within for the values God will give us, and accept to seek instead the way God sees? This is the hint of what He seeks for us, how we are to become like Him, in the image God has for each of us, and to grow in that image. This is true for our own hearts within ourselves, and for the relationships we cultivate and in which we grow, especially in sacrament. How do you turn to God for your integrity and inner life, the real life of the heart, and what it means to be a full person? What is it to be true to the person God calls you to be?