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Thursday, June 1, 2023

And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home

 
 He also said to His disciples:  "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and an accusation was brought to him that this man was wasting his goods.  So he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you?  Give an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'  Then the steward said within himself, 'What shall I do?  For my master is taking the stewardship away from me.  I cannot dig; I am ashamed to beg.  I have resolved what to do, that when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.'  So he called every one of his master's debtors to him, and said to the first, 'How much do you owe my master?'  And he said, 'A hundred measures of oil.'  So he said to him, 'Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.'  Then he said to another, 'And how much do you owe?'  So he said, 'A hundred measures of wheat.'  And he said to him, 'Take your bill, and write eighty.'  So the master commended the unjust steward because he had dealt shrewdly.  For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light.  And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home."
 
- Luke 16:1-9 
 
On Tuesday, we read that all the tax collectors and the sinners drew near to Jesus to hear Him.  And the Pharisees and scribes complained, saying, "This Man receives sinners and eats with them."  In response to this, Jesus gave three parables.  On Tuesday, we read the parables of the Lost Sheep and the Lost Coin.  In yesterday's reading, Jesus gave the parable of the Prodigal.  He said:  "A certain man had two sons.  And the younger of them said to his father, 'Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.'  So he divided to them his livelihood.  And not many days after, the younger son gathered all together, journeyed to a far country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal living.  But when he had spent all, there arose a severe famine in that land, and he began to be in want.  Then he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine.  And he would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, and no one gave him anything.  But when he came to himself, he said, 'How many of my father's hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!  I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, and I am no longer worthy to be called your son.  Make me like one of your hired servants."'  And he arose and came to his father.  But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.  And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.'  But the father said to his servants, 'Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet.  And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.'  And they began to be merry.  Now his older son was in the field.  And as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing.  So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant.  And he said to him, 'Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.'  But he was angry and would not go in.  Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him.  So he answered and said to his father, 'Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends.  But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.'  And he said to him, 'Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours.  It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again, and was lost and is found.'" 

 He also said to His disciples:  "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and an accusation was brought to him that this man was wasting his goods.  So he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you?  Give an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'  Then the steward said within himself, 'What shall I do?  For my master is taking the stewardship away from me.  I cannot dig; I am ashamed to beg.  I have resolved what to do, that when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.'  So he called every one of his master's debtors to him, and said to the first, 'How much do you owe my master?'  And he said, 'A hundred measures of oil.'  So he said to him, 'Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.'  Then he said to another, 'And how much do you owe?'  So he said, 'A hundred measures of wheat.'  And he said to him, 'Take your bill, and write eighty.'  So the master commended the unjust steward because he had dealt shrewdly.  For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light.  And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home."  My study Bible comments on today's passage that a steward (in Greek, οἰκονόμος/economos) is responsible for managing his master's property and looking after the welfare of his servants.  It notes that the point of this parable is that the unrighteous are better at using money to make friends in the world than believers are at using money to make friends for the Kingdom of God -- which is accomplished by spending it on the needy.  At death (when you fail) the needy will welcome their benefactors into the everlasting home.

How do we make friends by unrighteous mammon?  This is really quite an important question, because what it tells us is the truth about how the world works within the spiritual framework of the salvation plan of God.  If we pause to think about "saving the world," and do so in some sort of very rationalistic worldly sense, we might wonder why God just did not come into this world and "fix" everything.  Why not just get rid of the bad people, or put them over in their own community somewhere, and set the good people down somewhere else to flourish?  Why wait for a final judgment?  There are all sorts of things that are perplexing if we think about judgment and salvation in this sort of worldly way of balancing the books and striking off what's not good.  But Jesus' clues here about the beneficial use of unrighteous mammon tell us that God's creation does not work in this applied rationalistic sense of strict lines drawn between what is good and what is evil.  For God usurps and trumps everything; and in God's economy of salvation, even what is unrighteous can be used for God's plans, for what is good.  That is, to serve the goals of God's love.  Therefore, there is nothing evil in and of itself in this sense.  As God created the world and pronounced it "good," so we can use the things of this world for good -- if they are used to serve God's purposes.  And within this paradox is a further image of paradox, that of the "dollars and cents" (so to speak) image of balancing the account books.  Instead of sticking to the details and pursuing every line to come out to a perfect balance, this steward is praised in the parable for writing off debts in order to "make friends."  Well, this is a picture of charitable giving, where we don't add up every debt and everything owed and press it out of the person who owes us.  We give because people are in need.  We give -- serving the ends of God -- in the sense of shoring up community, even creating community.  In the light of the parable of the Good Samaritan, which we read in the reading from a week ago, Jesus is teaching us about being a neighbor, and stressing this importance in the grand economy of salvation -- that place of our everlasting home -- and the perspective there.  Similarly, we're taught to pray in the Lord's Prayer, "Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors" (Matthew 6:12), reminding us that the forgiveness of sin is really not about equaling everything up and deciding what is owed to us by those who've sinned against us.  Forgiveness is about this place of the everlasting home, and the view from there, God's plan for us for salvation.  It's not necessary to make sense in terms of "unrighteous mammon," but instead to be understood from a higher perspective, a more universal doctrine of community and expanded love.  It doesn't have to make sense according to a worldly understanding, but we are called by Christ to this place of God's love, where compassion becomes a rule, and "making friends" -- like being a neighbor -- is how we're commanded to live.  We're asked to discern a way through the world in which we are set free by Christ to practice His compassion with wisdom, to let go of things that we're better off without, and to find good purposes even for "unrighteous mammon."  For God's way transforms all things, and while we are on the way to pleasing God in this sense of following the commands that transcend the worldly, we will find ourselves and our lives transformed as well. 







Friday, November 11, 2022

For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light

 
 He also said to His disciples:  "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and an accusation was brought to him that this man was wasting his goods.  So he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you?  Given an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'  Then the steward said within himself, 'What shall I do?  For my master is taking the stewardship away from me.  I cannot dig; I am ashamed to beg.  I have resolved what to do, that when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.'   So he called every one of his master's debtors to him, and said to the first, 'How much do you owe my master?'  And he said, 'A hundred measures of oil.'  So he said to him, 'Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.'  Then he said to another, 'And how much do you owe?'  So he said, 'A hundred measures of wheat.'  And he said to him, 'Take your bill, and write eighty.'  So the master commended the unjust steward because he had dealt shrewdly.  For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light.  And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home."
 
- Luke 16:1-9 
 
Yesterday we read the continuation of the passage begun on Wednesday, in which all the tax collectors and the sinners drew near to Jesus to hear Him.  And the Pharisees and scribes complained, saying, "This Man receives sinners and eats with them."  In response, Jesus told three parables.  Two of them (the parable of the Lost Sheep and the parable of the Lost Coin) were in Wednesday's reading.  In yesterday's reading, Jesus told the parable of the Lost Son or the Prodigal Son.  He said:  "A certain man had two sons.  And the younger of them said to his father, 'Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.'  So he divided to them his livelihood.  And not many days after, the younger son gathered all together, journeyed to a far country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal living.  But when he had spent all, there arose a severe famine in that land, and he began to be in want.  Then he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country, and he sent him into the his fields to feed swine.  And he would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, and no one gave him anything.  But when he came to himself, he said, 'How many of my father's hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!  I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, and I am no longer worthy to be called your son.  Make me like one of your hired servants."'  And he arose and came to his father.  But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.  And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.'  But the father said to his servants, 'Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet.  And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; for this my son was dead and is alive again, he was lost and is found.'  And they began to be merry.  Now his older son was in the field.  And as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing.  So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant.  And he said to him, 'Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.'  But he was angry and would not go in.  Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him.  So he answered and said to his father, 'Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends.  But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.'  And he said to him, 'Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours.  It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again, and was lost and is found.'"

  He also said to His disciples:  "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and an accusation was brought to him that this man was wasting his goods.  So he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you?  Given an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'  Then the steward said within himself, 'What shall I do?  For my master is taking the stewardship away from me.  I cannot dig; I am ashamed to beg.  I have resolved what to do, that when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.'   So he called every one of his master's debtors to him, and said to the first, 'How much do you owe my master?'  And he said, 'A hundred measures of oil.'  So he said to him, 'Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.'  Then he said to another, 'And how much do you owe?'  So he said, 'A hundred measures of wheat.'  And he said to him, 'Take your bill, and write eighty.'  So the master commended the unjust steward because he had dealt shrewdly.  For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light.  And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home."    My study Bible explains that a steward is responsible for managing the master's property and looking after the welfare of the master's servants.  The point of this parable, it says, is that the unrighteous are better at using money to make friends in the world than believers are at using money to make friends for the Kingdom of God -- which is accomplished by spending it on the needy.  At death (when you fail), it says, the needy will welcome their benefactors into the everlasting home.
 
In today's reading, Jesus gives a fourth parable in response to the complaint of the Pharisees and scribes, made when the tax collectors and sinners came to hear Christ, "This Man receives sinners and eats with them."   But in today's reading, He directs this particular parable to His own disciples.  In the three parables we have already read in response to the Pharisees and scribes, the parables of the Lost Sheep and the Lost Coin in Wednesday's reading, and the parable of the Lost Son or Prodigal Son in yesterday's reading (see above), the emphasis was on the "extra mile" one would go to retrieve what was lost and can be found again.  The shepherd in the parable left behind ninety-nine sheep to find the one, the woman makes all the effort in sweeping and cleaning her house to find the one coin missing out of ten.  In yesterday's reading, the elderly father doesn't mind risking embarrassment and even upset on the part of his older son by expressing his great love for the son who was lost and then found again upon the prodigal's return.  Those parables gave us a sense of God's great love which would make every effort to retrieve those lost to God who could be found again and returned to our Father in heaven.  Jesus taught, "I say to you that likewise there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine just persons who need no repentance."  But today's reading places the emphasis on us, giving us a sense of how our own efforts should be made to reconcile ourselves to those around us.  Simple justice isn't enough, and mercy becomes the key to the formation of this citizenship of the kingdom to which He alludes in the parable.  We are, like God, to go that extra mile to bring those in need closer to the kingdom of God.  A steward is an important stand-in for the disciples and others who will be the shepherds in His Church.  When Jesus tells parables that involve stewards as figures in the parable, then He is frequently addressing the disciples who will become the stewards and leaders of His Church.  In this case, He's telling them about using resources which will be available to them with mercy, even with extravagance, leaving behind a kind of measure-for-measure or tit-for-tat sense of justice, and instead measuring by fellowship and love.  To practice charity, to go the extra mile to keep fellowship and relationships within community becomes the important goal here, the hallmark of His kingdom in this world.  Can we make allowances for our fellow members of the Church?  Can we give a little extra to someone who needs a good word?  Can we bring comfort to others who are feeling isolated or sad?  Can we find a way to help others to know they are included in our circle of care, and of compassion?  These are the ways in which we may practice the kind of fellowship Jesus teaches here, in addition to charity using financial and other material resources that we have.  In such cases, we do not measure in accordance with what is owed or what is on the books or what we are compelled through some financial requirement that makes figures add up in account books.  Our charity is practiced for other reasons, and without those restrictions on it.  Do we donate to our church simply to get a tax write-off, or are there other reasons for supporting a fellowship which includes those who cannot make such donations (should we have that capacity ourselves)?  Is the Church for all, or only for those with the wealth to build its physical walls?  No, wealth is shared to build community and communion, to include those who may not have the same sort of financial resources to give, but who also are fellow servants in faith.  In this sense Jesus makes the statement that "the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light." A very 'worldly' person may understand what it is to overlook a debt, to make a donation, or even to offer a bribe where some good will is desired.  But a sincerely spiritual and honest person must also come to understand that generosity of spirit is necessary for the Kingdom as well, making allowances for what goes beyond simply honest accounting.  If we give for love of our communion and community, we might understand that what we give doesn't necessarily make material sense on a personal level, but to give to our fellow servants, to practice love and care, is also the way of the Kingdom, and it is the way that we build the relationships with our fellow servants that Christ wishes of us.  How can we help those who need help?  We go an extra mile in order to do so, we "make friends" with those who could use our help and love, regardless of how that is expressed.  Let us consider in what ways Jesus asks us to reach out, to be generous with resources of time and care and attention, in addition to financial resources ("unrighteous mammon"), for all of it is part of what it means to be a good steward and a good fellow servant who serves the same Master.  For we may shrewdly use our resources for the Kingdom.  It is that kind of encouragement we all need, that shores up true fellowship, and teaches others we care for them -- that they are precious in our sight as they are precious in His.  People may feel that kindness is something simple or easily overlooked, but it is just that simple thing that can make a difference in our fellowship and in our own standing in Christ's kingdom.




 

Friday, November 11, 2016

The sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light


He also said to His disciples:  "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and an accusation was brought to him that this man was wasting his goods.  So he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you?  Give an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'  Then the steward said within himself, 'What shall I do?  For my master is taking the stewardship away from me.  I cannot dig; I am ashamed to beg.  I have resolved what to do, that when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.'  So he called every one of his master's debtors to him, and said to the first, 'How much do you owe my master?'  And he said, 'A hundred measures of oil.'  So he said to him, 'Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.'  Then he said to another, 'And how much do you owe?'  So he said, 'A hundred measures of wheat.'  And he said to him, 'Take your bill, and write eighty.'  So the master commended the unjust steward because he had dealt shrewdly.  For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light.  And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home."

 - Luke 16:1-9

In yesterday's reading, Jesus gave us the parable of the Prodigal Son.  It is the third in a series He gave when all the tax collectors and the sinners who drew near to Him to hear Him.  The Pharisees and scribes complained, saying, "This Man receives sinners and eats with them."  Jesus responded first with two parables.   Then He said:  "A certain man had two sons.  And the younger of them said to his father, 'Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.'  So he divided to them his livelihood.  And not many days after, the younger son gathered all together, journeyed to a far country, and there wasted his possessions with prodigal living.  But when he had spent all, there arose a severe famine in that land, and he began to be in want.  Then he went and joined himself to a citizen of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed swine.  And he would gladly have filled his stomach with the pods that the swine ate, and no one gave him anything.  But when he came to himself, he said, 'How many of my father's hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger!  I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you, and I am no longer worthy to be called your son.  Make me like one of your hired servants."'  And he arose and came to his father.  But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.  And the son said to him, 'Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight, and am no longer worthy to be called your son.'  But the father said to his servants, 'Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet.  And bring the fatted calf here and kill it, and let us eat and be merry; for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.'  And they began to be merry.  Now his older son was in the field.  And as he came and drew near the house, he heard music and dancing.  So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant.  And he said to him, 'Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.'  But he was angry and would not go in.  Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him.  So he answered and said to his father, 'Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandment at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends.  But as soon as this son of yours came, who has devoured your livelihood with harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.'  And he said to him, 'Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours.  It was right that we should make merry and be glad, for your brother was dead and is alive again, and was lost and is found.'"

He also said to His disciples:  "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and an accusation was brought to him that this man was wasting his goods.  So he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you?  Give an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'  Then the steward said within himself, 'What shall I do?  For my master is taking the stewardship away from me.  I cannot dig; I am ashamed to beg.  I have resolved what to do, that when I am put out of the stewardship, they may receive me into their houses.'  So he called every one of his master's debtors to him, and said to the first, 'How much do you owe my master?'  And he said, 'A hundred measures of oil.'  So he said to him, 'Take your bill, and sit down quickly and write fifty.'  Then he said to another, 'And how much do you owe?'  So he said, 'A hundred measures of wheat.'  And he said to him, 'Take your bill, and write eighty.'  So the master commended the unjust steward because he had dealt shrewdly.  For the sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light.  And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous mammon, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home.  He who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in much; and he who is unjust in what is least is unjust also in much.  Therefore if you have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true riches?  And if you have not been faithful in what is another man's, who will give you what is your own?  No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other.  You cannot serve God and mammon."    We note that the previous parables of the lost sheep, the silver coin, and the prodigal son (above) were given to the Pharisees and scribes who complained that all the tax collectors and sinners came to listen to Jesus.  This parable in today's reading is given to His disciples.   A steward is responsible for managing his master's property and looking after the welfare of his servants.  We can understand the role of those who will serve the Church as stewards, and we consider ourselves stewards of all that is in the world -- as opposed to owners.  My study bible tells us that Jesus contrasts the unrighteous with believers in terms of their expertise at the use of wealth.  The unrighteous (such as this unjust but shrewd steward) know how to make friends using their wealth, but the righteous often fail to do so.  The key is that their use of wealth must be focused on God's purposes of community, in charity.  As my study bible puts it, to make friends for the Kingdom of God, which is accomplished by spending on the needy.      There is, I find, always a hidden exchange in Jesus' teachings:  what we do for those who cannot pay us back, for the least of these, is really storing up a kind of treasure in the Kingdom.  It is the ones left outside who are brought back into community through this behavior, and such "friends" are a part of the Kingdom.  They are the ones about whom Jesus says that "in heaven their angels always behold the face of My Father who is in heaven" (Matthew 18:10). 

Jesus says, "The sons of this world are more shrewd in their generation than the sons of light."  It's a very keen observation, and one filled with a kind of irony.  What, after all, does it mean to make friends for the kingdom of God?  We can look around ourselves and see that power brokers and wealthy of the world often make "friendships" based on, shall we say, the rules of mammon.  That is, in the affairs of ambition and gain, we may see pragmatic partnerships that only make sense on those terms, and used to take advantage of the weak, the less powerful.  But Jesus teaches here that there is a line drawn through all of our affairs, and He seems to suggest that in every negotiation, in the smallest choices, in every affair, there is the choice of what kind of steward we are.  And although Jesus seems to give the example of only money, if you think about it, what wealth we do have control over may include all kinds of things in life:  our voices, our opinions, our capacity to pray for others, to give them a good word.  We can share a meal at our table, or invite those who are alone to come in to sit with us -- there are all kinds of ways that we "make friends" using whatever we have in this world.  Wealth comes in many, many forms -- and currency also comes in many forms.  The question is, what do we do with it?  And, more particularly, Whom do we serve?  Jesus gives us a stark choice:  God or mammon, and makes it clear that we can't serve both.  We're going to have to make up our minds where our treasure is.