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Saturday, May 2, 2026

You have heard that it was said, "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth"

 
 "You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.'  But I tell you not to resist an evil person.  But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.  If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also.  And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two.  Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away. 
 
"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.'  But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.  For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?  Do not even the tax collectors do the same?  And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others?  Do not even the tax collectors do so?  Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."
 
- Matthew 5:38–48 
 
 We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5 - 7).   Earlier in this sermon, Jesus taught the disciples, "For I say to you, that unless your righteousness exceeds the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven."  In recent subsequent readings, Jesus has been teaching exactly what this means.  Yesterday we read that He taught, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is ore profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.  Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither  by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
 
  "You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.'  But I tell you not to resist an evil person.  But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.  If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also.  And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two.  Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away."  My study Bible notes that in contrast to the Old Testament (Exodus 21:24; Leviticus 24:20; Deuteronomy 19:21), Jesus warns us not to resist violence with more violence.  It says that evil can only be overcome by good, which keeps us free from compromise with the devil and can bring our enemy under the yoke of God's love.  My study Bible includes a story of one of the desert saints.  He once found his hut being looted of its few possessions; he knelt in the corner praying for the bandits.  When they left, this monk realized they had not taken his walking stick.  He pursued them for days until he could give them this stick as well.  When they saw his humility, they returned everything to him and were converted to Jesus Christ. 
 
 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.'  But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.  For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?  Do not even the tax collectors do the same?  And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others?  Do not even the tax collectors do so?"  My study Bible explains that if we are freed from hate, sadness, and anger, then we are able to receive the greatest virtue, which is perfect love.  The love of enemies isn't simply an emotion, but it includes decision and action.  As my study Bible puts it, it is to treat our enemies as the closest members of our own family (see 1 John 4:7-21).  
 
"Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."  According to my study Bible, this is the summary statement of all that has preceded so far in the Sermon on the Mount.  A Christian can grow in the perfection of the Father (Ephesians 4:13; 2 Peter 1:2-9).  This is shown by imitating God's love and mercy (see also Luke 6:36).  
 
 My study Bible sums up the teachings in today's reading in this way:  "An eye for an eye" -- a graphic way of seeing justice from a human perspective -- becomes "turn the other [cheek]" and "love your enemies."  It frames this as teaching that we must not only forsake vengeance, even when it is just retribution, but we must seek to treat others as God treats us, with mercy and grace.  Given this thought, it's very important to understand that in the Old Testament, "an eye for an eye" was in fact meant to be a limiting corrective for overarching, excess violence and cycles of revenge and retribution.  We read in the Old Testament of Lamech, a descendant of Cain.  He bragged to his wives in a song, "For I have killed a man for wounding me, even a young man for hurting me. If Cain shall be avenged sevenfold, then Lamech seventy-sevenfold" (Genesis 4:23-24).  Noah was the son of Lamech, and the flood came to the earth because of the violence and evil which proliferated among humankind (Genesis 6:1-8).  Therefore what we see and receive through Christ's teachings is the reversal of that previous reality and multiplication of sin, an antidote to it all; Jesus prescribes for us holiness as the response to world beset with problems of evil and multiplying sin and violence.  And in this is our salvation; this is what He brings to us.  The Incarnation of Jesus Christ, who is fully God and fully human, brings to us the capacity for holiness in His life lived among us, and our own nature capable of taking on the qualities of the divine, becoming more like God.  For this we have the Incarnation, including Christ's Ascension, in which human flesh becomes a part of heaven, divinized.  Jesus has sent us the Helper, the Holy Spirit, meant to lead us into the fruits that Jesus wants of us (Galatians 5:22-23).  This is our calling from Christ, to become divinized to the extent that we can, through process of faith unfolding in our lives, by rejecting that which we find in ourselves which is incompatible with that calling and internal work of the Holy Spirit in us.  It is in this context Christ teaches, "If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you . . ." in yesterday's reading (see above).  This process is called theosis among the Orthodox, and we are meant to grow in it, a lifetime process, the working out of our salvation (Philippians 2:12).  It's not something we invent, or devise for ourselves, it's not simply an intellectual process or belief, but it's the living of faith, using all the tools and structures given to us in Church and Tradition (including Scripture), and it's also a mystical process, depending upon the leading we find within our sacraments, that of Holy Baptism which confers the Holy Spirit, the Eucharist, and all others included.  This is a process whereby we become a part of what Christ called His family when He said, "Here are My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is My brother and sister and mother" (see Matthew 12:48-50).  All these tools and practices in the Church, including prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, are meant to help us to seek God's will for us, to find where it is we are called, to first seek the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 6:33).  For this must be our orientation and our salvation.  Lest we be concerned about the conditions Jesus' teachings seem to impose upon us, it should be understood that among the early Christian martyrs there were many soldiers.  They were not burdened by their faith to stop being soldiers in the Roman Empire, but died as martyrs for their faith by a refusal to participate in worship of the Emperor (as example, see the Forty Martyrs of Sepastia).  Jesus' teachings here are against vengeance, and favor mercy, but they don't preclude justice.  Instead, they teach us about a proactive kind of righteousness.  They teach us about the avoidance of unnecessary harm or aggression.  To turn the other cheek, to go the extra mile, to love an enemy does not mean that we are meant to suffer abuse or be blind to what is just.  But Jesus teaches us instead that we have God to serve first, and love upholds truth and justice as well.  It is not a teaching on submission to evil, but rather one that rejects the cycle of personal vengeance and retribution that produces of itself unnecessary evil.  It is through righteousness that evil is countered; this would include the protection of the innocent and defense against abuse and harm.  Additional evil is what Jesus is preaching against.  Additionally, the teaching in Greek may also closely be translated, "Do not resist the evil one" rather than an "evil person."  Indeed, this is the way the passage was read by St. John Chrysostom.  In some sense, his reading separates sin from sinner.  In that perspective, we are to understand that evil is not defeated through conventional means of retribution, or return of evil, but only through righteous behavior.  Whatever way we understand Christ's teachings, He is telling us that our circumstances don't determine who we need to be, but we need to remember always that our prime job is to be the children of our Father, and loyal to our calling. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Saturday, April 27, 2024

You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth'

 
 "You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.'  But I tell you not to resist an evil person.  But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.  If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also.  And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two.  Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away.  

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.'  But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.  For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?  Do not even the tax collectors do the same?  And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others?  Do not even the tax collectors do so?  Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."
 
- Matthew 5:38-48 
 
We are currently reading through the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5 - 7).  Yesterday we read that Jesus taught, "You have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not commit adultery.'  But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.  If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell.  Furthermore it has been said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.'  But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.  Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, 'You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform your oaths to the Lord.'  But I say to you, do not swear at all:  neither by heaven, for it is God's throne; nor by the earth, for it is His footstool; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King.  Nor shall you swear by your head, because you cannot make one hair white or black.  But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,' and your 'No,' 'No.'  For whatever is more than these is from the evil one."
 
  "You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.'  But I tell you not to resist an evil person.  But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.  If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also.  And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two.  Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away."   My study Bible says that in contrast to the Old Testament (Exodus 21:24; Leviticus 24:20; Deuteronomy 19:21), Jesus warns us not to resist violence with more violence.  Evil can only be overcome by good, it notes, which keeps us free from compromise with the devil and can bring our enemy under the yoke of God's love. 
 
 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.'  But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.  For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?  Do not even the tax collectors do the same?  And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others?  Do not even the tax collectors do so?"  To be freed from hate, sadness, and anger, my study Bible says, is to be able to then receive the greatest virtue:  perfect love.  The love of enemies is not a mere emotion, but includes decision and action.  See 1 John 4:7-21.

"Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."  My study Bible calls this the summary statement of all that has preceded.  The Christian can indeed grow in the perfection of the Father (Ephesians 4:13), which is shown by imitating God's love and mercy (compare Luke 6:36).  
 
What does it mean to be perfect?  Jesus gives us a model for perfection, God the Father.  It is an ultimate yardstick, something toward which to seek to grow, and to learn to grow in likeness to the things we know of God such as Jesus names.  There seems to be a complete emphasis here on an abundance of mercy; that without mercy we don't have real righteousness or justice.  It's significant to remember that when "an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth" was first said as part of the Law, it was given as a limitation to violence.   For context, the Old Testament tells us the story of escalating violence after sin entered into the world, with perhaps a pinnacle reached in the story of Lamech, who bragged that he would take vengeance seventy-seven fold (Genesis 4:22-24).  We might even bear in mind the story of Noah and what it tells us about the sinfulness of the world.  But in the story of salvation we are given Christ, whom the Revelation teaches us is "the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world" (Revelation 13:8).  Perhaps one way we are to understand Jesus' teachings here is to recall our ultimate reliance upon God for all things.  In Moses' song in Deuteronomy, an extremely ancient Scripture, we read, "Vengeance is Mine, and recompense; Their foot shall slip in due time; For the day of their calamity is at hand, And the things to come hasten upon them" (Deuteronomy 32:35, quoted by St. Paul in Romans 12:19).  Once again, we turn to Christ the Lord as the One teaching us about establishing community and right-relatedness -- but perhaps most of all we must consider how His teachings leave us room to find the way God would ask us to go in all circumstances.  To withdraw from immediate impulse is to have the capacity to check one's passions or emotions and to seek a way to cope with even difficult circumstances with God's help and guidance.  What Jesus is teaching is a way of life, a discipleship, that entails a lifetime of pursuit, in which we hopefully grow in our own capacity to become more "like Him."




 
 

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies


 "But I say to you who hear:  Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you. To him who strikes you on the one cheek, offer the other also.  And from him who takes away your cloak, do not withhold your tunic either.  Give to everyone who asks of you. And from him who takes away your goods do not ask them back.  And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise.  But if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you?  For even sinners love those who love them.  And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you?  For even sinners do the same.  And if you lend to those from whom you hope to receive back, what credit is that to you?  For even sinners lend to sinners to receive as much back.  But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High.  For He is kind to the unthankful and evil.  Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful.

"Judge not, and you shall not be judged.  Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned.  Forgive, and you will be forgiven.  Give, and it will be given to you:  good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom.  For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you."

- Luke 6:27-38

In yesterday's reading, we read that Jesus went out to the mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God.  And when it was day, He called His disciples to Himself; and from them He chose twelve whom He also named apostles:  Simon, whom He also named Peter, and Andrew his brother; James and John; Philip and Bartholomew; Matthew and Thomas; James the son of Alphaeus, and Simon called the Zealot; Judas the son of James, and Judas Iscariot who also became a traitor.  And He came down with them and stood on a level place with a crowd of His disciples and a great multitude of people from all Judea and Jerusalem, and from the seacoast of Tyre and Sidon, who came to hear Him and be healed of their diseases, as well as those who were tormented with unclean spirits.  And they were healed.  And the whole multitude sought to touch Him, for power went out from Him and healed them all.  Then He lifted up His eyes toward His disciples, and said: "Blessed are you poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.  Blessed are you who hunger now, for you shall be filled.  Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh.  Blessed are you when men hate you, and when they exclude you, and revile you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of Man's sake.  Rejoice in that day and leap for joy!  For indeed your reward is great in heaven, for in like manner their fathers did to the prophets.  But woe to you who are rich, for you have received your consolation.  Woe to you who are full, for you shall hunger.  Woe to you who laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep.  Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for so did their fathers to the false prophets."

 "But I say to you who hear:  Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you. To him who strikes you on the one cheek, offer the other also.  And from him who takes away your cloak, do not withhold your tunic either.  Give to everyone who asks of you. And from him who takes away your goods do not ask them back."  One thing can be seen clearly from grouping these teachings together:  they are highly pro-active.  In other words, Jesus is talking about taking the initiative and setting a tone.  We are not simply people who respond to the world in kind and allow others to define our actions and character for us.  To love an enemy doesn't mean one approves of everything that is done, no matter how evil it may be!  No, to love an enemy is like loving a child -- one wants what's best for them, and the best is never bad or sinful behavior.  But it sets a tone, it gives us an orientation.  To do good is to do good - and good doesn't sanction evil:  we remember that a rebuke from the Lord is an act of love.  The teachings on turning the other cheek and those that follow set a tone:  Christ I believe is not asking us to be depleted of all worldly goods nor simply to be victims, but rather to rise above our circumstances, to do what is best to be peacemakers, but most of all to take stock in all circumstances and not simply to return automatically the behavior we find in the world. 

"And just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise."  This is a very important statement, and if we think about it, one that really invites us to think.  If we're behaving badly, do we want correction?  If we have been misunderstood, do we not want understanding?  If we are confused, do we want to be enlightened?  One assumes that those who are His disciples -- that is, those to whom He directs these teachings -- would wish to understand themselves in this sense.  It also guides us to the discerning practice of mercy.

"But if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you?  For even sinners love those who love them.  And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you?  For even sinners do the same.  And if you lend to those from whom you hope to receive back, what credit is that to you?  For even sinners lend to sinners to receive as much back.  But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High.  For He is kind to the unthankful and evil.  Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful."  Again, Christ's statements here ask us to think:  What is loving?  And to do good is an important thing also to consider:  here, it is a word that is somewhat akin to virtue, we are asked to do good according to what God thinks is good.  So we are in fact invited to really consider what is "good" in all situations; we're not asked simply to indulge what is evil, nor the will of "the world."  But in all things, Jesus refers us back to the Kingdom, and back to God, the Most High.  That is where our allegiance lies, and in this we don't simply return "kind for kind" nor automatically respond to events or people as the world would seem to expect us or teach us to do.  We must consider in mercy and in righteousness what is proper and best.

"Judge not, and you shall not be judged.  Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned.  Forgive, and you will be forgiven.  Give, and it will be given to you:  good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom.  For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you."  My study bible has the following note here:  "The Kingdom of God calls us to a way of life in which mercy abounds.  We must:  (1) Refrain from judging.  By definition, human judgment precludes mercy.  (2) Do not condemn.  Condemnation causes us to depart from mercy.  (3)  Forgive.  Forgiveness can only come out of a heart of mercy.  (4)  Give.  When we give abundantly we receive from God in the same measure."  To my mind, refraining from judgment means that we give up our judgment to God.  Forgiveness is similar:  it doesn't mean we approve of everything others do, but it does mean that we turn to God and give up the situation to the Lord.  Our real "exchange" is in the hands of God, and this is where Jesus is pointing in all of His teachings.  Just like in teaching about "giving in secret" in Matthew's Gospel, Jesus turns our eyes to God as our medium of exchange.  So all our relationships are mediated by and through this Kingdom.

In today's reading, Jesus teaches,  "Give, and it will be given to you:  good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom.  For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you." All of His teachings in today's reading do one thing and do it very forcefully, like a slap on the cheek!  He turns us to the Kingdom of God, to the rule of God in our lives.  God becomes the medium for true righteousness.  If I give and expect nothing in return, the One who truly returns my good gift is God.  It is a kind of medium of exchange.  It is quite telling that the most direct statement we have that summarizes these teachings is "with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you."  Jesus changes our focus from what the world would give, (that is, from a worldly perspective) to what God gives, to the perspective which includes our membership in this Kingdom.  And that is, indeed, a radical shift of our point of view.  The teachings about those who would harm us or steal from us are quite radical, and I believe they are meant to be so, in order to teach us an important point:  that we turn our attention purely to what God wants of us in every situation.  I don't believe Christ is calling us to be victims nor impoverished paupers simply for the sake of being poor.  Neither is He suggesting that there is no place for the work of public legal institutions of justice.  He's grabbing our attention, and teaching us about what is most important.  His disciples are to be ambassadors of the Kingdom, and thereby their loyalty and allegiance isn't to the worldly ways in which the world works and thinks, but behavior in accordance with what love teaches, and the goodness or virtue that God teaches.  God is the one who returns to us what we give in this scenario and teaching, and it is to God we therefore owe our allegiance as children of the Most High.  The practice of mercy does not preclude justice nor does it exclude truth; we don't sanction unrighteous behavior.  But we are called "out of the world" in order to practice love and goodness the way that God calls us to do, and to remember that our real exchange is from God, as "every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning" (James 1:17).  Let us remember that, ultimately, to pray for our enemies is to pray for God's love and truth to be manifest in them, as well as ourselves.  This is what is truly "good," the greatest gift of all in Christ's perspective.



Friday, February 25, 2011

You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth'

"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also. And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away. You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect."

- Matthew 5:38-48

We continue now through the readings of the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew, in preparation for Lent. We began with the Beatitudes on Monday. Tuesday we read about Jesus teaching His disciples that they are the salt of the earth, and the light of the world. In the next reading, Jesus expanded on the law against murder, and yesterday we read His teaching on the importance of watching our thoughts, and cultivating a life in which we choose carefully what we dwell on and what we cast away from ourselves. Today Jesus continues with teachings on justice, and expanding how we understand what this means.

"You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also. If anyone wants to sue you and take away your tunic, let him have your cloak also. And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away." We turn now to the problem of justice, and Jesus seeks to define for us a concept of justice that takes out the idea of retribution - a measured response that is somehow created only by the act of the "other." In some sense, Jesus creates an independent spirit here, in which our choices to respond to others really comes from a relationship to God. This is the whole essence of a righteous life, and one of compassion and discernment. In other words, the equation becomes not one of tit-for-tat, not dependent only on the choices of the other person, but mediated by a relationship to God who is loving and compassionate - and who is the true Judge.

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so? Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect." Jesus once again takes an equation and changes its balance, to include God as a part of that way that we seek to relate to others. He compares our relationship to others with God's relationship to all of us. From the earliest years of the church, when it was under great persecution, St. Paul encouraged Christian believers to pray for civil authorities and those in power. "I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people—for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. " (1 Timothy 2:1-4). Our lives and actions are to be mediated by God's love in all relationships. This is not a prescription for abuse, and it is in no way a surrender to the "prince of this world" and its injustice. Instead, it is a kind of resistance, but one that must work in a particular way to be most spiritually effective. It is a way to carry on a life dedicated to the love of God and its manifestation in the world. It sets us apart by allowing us the spiritual freedom to choose how we will respond, and to be bound by our own love of God - and therefore seeking that love in how we relate to others. My study bible says, "Love is not merely an emotion. It is a divine grace -- an uncreated divine energy -- which inflames the soul and unites it to God and to other people (see 1 John 4:7-21)."

Forgiveness can be a subject of great difficulty. What do we do with those who care nothing for our feelings, from whom we receive no acknowledgment of our suffering? We recall Jesus' words about God's sun and rain falling on all equally, the good and bad, just and unjust. We need, first of all, patience with God's justice, and a sense in which we take our cares to God, our complaints -- and find the best way to respond. This may mean no response at all, as in turning the other cheek. It may simply mean a peaceful demeanor, as in St. Paul's words of "peaceful and quiet lives." But justice is always included in this equation of mercy and compassion and godliness; it is not left out. To misuse these words for selfish ends, to condemn those who simply do not accept abuse in order to continue such behavior, is to miss the point entirely. We each have the responsibility of our own relationship to God, our own hearts to examine, as Jesus has taught in the previous readings from the Sermon on the Mount, especially yesterday's. Therefore, think of the rain and the sun, and ask in prayer how best to proceed. How does one deal with the injustice inherent in our world and its relationships? Jesus taught us to speak out when necessary, to uphold the values of love and truth, and to look to ourselves for what it is we must cleanse first. We recall the patience of God's love, and the time we are given to learn it better for ourselves. Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect. We are given time to continue in that journey, to find our way, and to carry with us the great desire to do it as "our Father who is in the secret place" would ask.