Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?" Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven. Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made. The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.' Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt. But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!' So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.' And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt. So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done. Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me. Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?' And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him. So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."- Matthew 18:21-35
In yesterday's reading, Jesus continued to teach the disciples about what it will mean in His Church to be truly great, and to possess authority. He said, "Take heed that you do not
despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their
angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven. For the Son
of Man has come to save that which was lost. What
do you think? If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes
astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to
seek the one that is straying? And if he should find it, assuredly, I
say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine
that did not go astray. Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish. Moreover
if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you
and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. But if
he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of
two or three witnesses every word may be established.' And if he
refuses to hear them, tell it to the church. But if he refuses even to
hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector. Assuredly,
I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and
whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again I say to
you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask,
it will be done for them by My Father in heaven. For where two or
three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of
them."
Then
Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin
against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?" Jesus said to him,
"I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.
Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to
settle accounts with his servants. And when he had begun to settle
accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. But
as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with
his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.
The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have
patience with me, and I will pay you all.' Then the master of that
servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the
debt. But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants
who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by
the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!' So his fellow servant fell
down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I
will pay you all.' And he would not, but went and threw him into prison
till he should pay the debt. So when his fellow servants saw what had
been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all
that had been done. Then his master, after he had called him, said to
him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you
begged me. Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow
servant, just as I had pity on you?' And his master was angry, and
delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to
him. So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his
heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses." Seventy times seven, according to my study Bible, is symbolic of an unlimited amount. This parable, it says, illustrates the need for unlimited forgiveness. Ten thousand talents is a completely unthinkable sum; it's more than a laborer could have earned in several lifetimes. A hundred denarii is the equivalent of about three months wages for Christ's contemporaries, a significant amount but tiny compared to the debt which was owed to the king. My study Bible comments that God not only stays the punishment we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well. So, if God forgives us, are we not in turn asked to grant the gift of forgiveness to others? (See Matthew 6:15; Mark 11:25-26.) There is an additional note on this parable as well, commenting on the nature of the punishment described by Jesus. A spiritual interpretation sees it as the man representing the soul, the wife representing the body, and the children a person's deeds. so, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery -- in other words, to Satan -- so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).
Forgiveness is a hard subject. For those of us who've been wronged in a grievous injustice -- particularly by someone we've loved -- it can become a monumental thing to figure out how to negotiate our forgiveness. It helps to think about the Lord's Prayer, echoed in the context of today's parable, in which we pray, "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors" (see verse 12). In the prayer, as in the parable, debts are equivalent to sins, and this term invites us to consider sins as those things that take something away from someone else. Perhaps debts are things others have done for us that we don't appreciate, or they are ways we've caused harm or injury, so that we "owe" what we've taken from someone in that sense. In this context, payment of such a debt would be fulfilling a way of making amends, restoration. In the 8th and 9th steps of the Twelve Steps, we find that a therapeutic program for health involves taking stock of such things, and doing our best to "repay" by making amends when possible and in ways that don't cause additional harm. Perhaps a memorable story of the Bible for making amends is the story of Zacchaeus, who restored fourfold anything he had taken by false accusation in his position as chief tax collection. This is restoration in line with Biblical directives. But what of forgiveness? Suppose no restitution or restoration comes? How do we forgive -- let go -- of a debt when someone has done us harm? How do we let go of the things we've done for others which go unappreciated or unnoticed? These things become essential -- as they are in today's reading -- in community, but in particular in the community constituted by Christ, where God (and Christ as Lord and Judge) become the ultimate arbiters of all things. When we cannot reconcile a debt easily between ourselves and other persons, we can take our forgiveness of debt to the Lord. For the Lord will "collect" in His own way, in His own time, and with His own justice, which is far superior to ours. In turn, this sets us free to begin to live in communion with Him, for He is the true restorer of all things, the only One who truly makes all things new (Isaiah 65:17; 2 Corinthians 5:17; Revelation 21:1). He is the only One who can create something out of nothing, for only god has such creative power. Therefore when we hand our "debts" over to Him, rather than collecting ourselves in whatever way we imagine we might, we make a kind of bargain in which all bets are off, and things suddenly become possible that were impossible, and we are set free to find God's way forward in our lives, instead of waiting to "collect" on people who won't or can't pay. We become God's children, in giving up the things that expect an earthly reward which isn't forthcoming, and release ourselves to God's way through life instead. In the context of the parable, we must notice the immeasurable amount of debt owed to the king, and such is our debt to God who loves us and seeks our love in return despite our uncountable sins in disregard of God's word and desires for us. And each time we return, as one of His sheep, all is forgiven (see the parable of the Prodigal Son). In our restoration to God and God's communion, God's love is ours regardless of how we have sinned. Indeed, it is in God's unfailing love that we learn to repent and replace what we've lost in life with His grace. Looking closely at our recent readings, we find that St. Peter's question to Jesus comes in the context of Christ's prescription for correction within the Church community, and after the one who has sinned has acknowledged what he's done, and so reconciliation becomes possible (see Christ's prescription for mutual correction in the Church in yesterday's reading, above). Unfortunately, acknowledgement is not always the case. And yet, in cases where there is no acknowledgement, there is still forgiveness in letting go of such debts to Christ, for it is in Christ that all things are reconciled (Colossians 1:19-20). Perhaps we would do well to notice that God forgives things that are great, while we are asked to forgive that which is small. Let us leave our "debts" in God's hands, for God's grace is unlimited, and freely given.