Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison will he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

 

- Matthew 18:21-35 

 

 In yesterday's reading, after taking a little child before Him and pointing to him as the model for discipleship, Jesus taught the disciples, "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison will he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."  We must note that Jesus' parable in today's reading comes in response to St. Peter's question about how many times he should forgive a brother in the Church (see yesterday's reading for the context of Jesus' teaching on mutual correction in the Church, above; verses 15-20).   My study Bible explains that seventy times seven is symbolic of an unlimited amount.  It says that the parable illustrates the need for unlimited forgiveness.  A talent was a weight for precious metal, silver or gold.  A single talent was equivalent to 15 - 20 years of a working person's salary.  Ten thousand talents, therefore, is a virtually impossible sum.  It's more than any laborer could earn in several lifetimes.  By comparison, a hundred denarii (about three months' wages) is a significant amount from an earthly perspective, but it's tiny compared to the debt that was owed the king.  My study Bible comments that God stays the punishment we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  Because God forgives us, we in turn are required to grant the gift of forgiveness to others.  Additionally, there are certain patristic teachers who give a spiritual interpretation to the punishment described in the final verse of today's reading.  In this understanding, the man represents the soul, the wife represents the body, and the children represent a person's deeds.  Therefore, in this perspective, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery -- that is, to Satan -- so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).  

 

 In yesterday's commentary, we discussed forgiveness in the context of Christ's teaching on mutual correction in the Church, and His parable of the lost sheep (see above).  In that parable, it was clear that for God, even one stray sheep out of one hundred was worth every extra effort to find and to retrieve back to the fold.  And so, in today's reading, St. Peter follows up on Jesus' teachings regarding mutual correction by asking a reasonable question.  How many times should this process take place?  If you go through difficulties with a person once, twice, three times, or more, how many times should one forgive?  Keep in mind that in Jesus' structure of correction and forgiveness, repentance also played a role before forgiveness.  This is not a "Get out of jail free" type of system.  It is not simply a means by which abusive or sinning behavior may continue without consequences.  (Indeed, Christ's final instructions in this system of correction were, "But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector").  So this is a system of dialogue in an expanding circle to finally include the whole Church where the original one who sinned against another refuses to hear, or not.  But St. Peter wants to know more.  "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  There must be a reasonable tenure to this process.  But Jesus' answer sets us in a place where we're asked (as is so often the case) to see things from a much bigger perspective than our own.  For this correcting (and healing) process is to take place not from the perspective of simply establishing good or colloquial relations, and not simply from our perspective as earthly individuals in a community.  This community expands far beyond simply our Church, in the sense that the Church is always in the context of God's salvation plan for all things.  For we cannot separate the Church into atomized pieces, nor can we distance the Church into some abstract organization outside of its establishment and purposes.  The Church, in the Eastern Christian tradition, has always been seen as a hospital; indeed, Christ affirms this when He calls Himself a physician ("Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. But go and learn what this means: 'I desire mercy and not sacrifice.' For I did not come to call the righteous, but sinners, to repentance" - Matthew 9:11-13).  So, in keeping also with the parable of the lost sheep of yesterday's reading, we must keep in mind that the system of mutual correction, and Christ's answer to St. Peter's question in today's reading, are also told with this salvation plan in mind.  That is, a salvation plan "for the life of the world" (John 6:33, 51).  So, Jesus' answer to St. Peter, prescribing an infinite number of times forgiveness through such a process if necessary, is given with this infinite process of salvation in mind.  The parable reinforces this, for the impossibly infinite-like sum of money owed to the master (that is, to God), simply can't compare to anything we're asked to give -- or to "give up" as the word for forgiveness indicates.  We're also, in this parable, asked to be "like" our Master; we we are made in God's image and are to manifest our likeness in our own conduct (Genesis 1:26).  Moreover, as the parable also makes abundantly clear, there's only one Master, the ultimate authority over all of us.  The Church is the house of the Master; we are God's servants, children by adoption.  We are to be "like God," that is, the Lord, who is the author of life and of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).  To paraphrase a popular expression, "His house, His rules."  Only these rules define for us the essence of righteousness, right-relatedness, that which we also name justice.  Let us take it to heart.  Remember God's purview and aims, the salvation of all.  Let us understand the life we're given, and how we're to participate in the place God gives us, for the life and salvation of the world.

 

 

 

 

Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'   So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

 

- Matthew 18:21-35 

 

 In yesterday's reading, Jesus continued to teach the disciples about what it will mean in His Church to be truly great, and to possess authority.  He said, "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."  

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'   So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."  Seventy times seven, according to my study Bible, is symbolic of an unlimited amount.  This parable, it says, illustrates the need for unlimited forgiveness.  Ten thousand talents is a completely unthinkable sum; it's more than a laborer could have earned in several lifetimes.  A hundred denarii is the equivalent of about three months wages for Christ's contemporaries, a significant amount but tiny compared to the debt which was owed to the king.  My study Bible comments that God not only stays the punishment we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  So, if God forgives us, are we not in turn asked to grant the gift of forgiveness to others?  (See Matthew 6:15; Mark 11:25-26.)  There is an additional note on this parable as well, commenting on the nature of the punishment described by Jesus.  A spiritual interpretation sees it as the man representing the soul, the wife representing the body, and the children a person's deeds.  so, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery -- in other words, to Satan -- so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).  

 

Forgiveness is a hard subject.  For those of us who've been wronged in a grievous injustice -- particularly by someone we've loved -- it can become a monumental thing to figure out how to negotiate our forgiveness.  It helps to think about the Lord's Prayer, echoed in the context of today's parable, in which we pray, "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors"  (see verse 12).  In the prayer, as in the parable, debts are equivalent to sins, and this term invites us to consider sins as those things that take something away from someone else.  Perhaps debts are things others have done for us that we don't appreciate, or they are ways we've caused harm or injury, so that we "owe" what we've taken from someone in that sense.  In this context, payment of such a debt would be fulfilling a way of making amends, restoration.  In the 8th and 9th steps of the Twelve Steps, we find that a therapeutic program for health involves taking stock of such things, and doing our best to "repay" by making amends when possible and in ways that don't cause additional harm.  Perhaps a memorable story of the Bible for making amends is the story of Zacchaeus, who restored fourfold anything he had taken by false accusation in his position as chief tax collection.  This is restoration in line with Biblical directives.  But what of forgiveness?  Suppose no restitution or restoration comes?  How do we forgive -- let go -- of a debt when someone has done us harm?  How do we let go of the things we've done for others which go unappreciated or unnoticed?  These things become essential -- as they are in today's reading -- in community, but in particular in the community constituted by Christ, where God (and Christ as Lord and Judge) become the ultimate arbiters of all things.  When we cannot reconcile a debt easily between ourselves and other persons, we can take our forgiveness of debt to the Lord.  For the Lord will "collect" in His own way, in His own time, and with His own justice, which is far superior to ours.  In turn, this sets us free to begin to live in communion with Him, for He is the true restorer of all things, the only One who truly makes all things new (Isaiah 65:17; 2 Corinthians 5:17; Revelation 21:1).  He is the only One who can create something out of nothing, for only god has such creative power.  Therefore when we hand our "debts" over to Him, rather than collecting ourselves in whatever way we imagine we might, we make a kind of bargain in which all bets are off, and things suddenly become possible that were impossible, and we are set free to find God's way forward in our lives, instead of waiting to "collect" on people who won't or can't pay.  We become God's children, in giving up the things that expect an earthly reward which isn't forthcoming, and release ourselves to God's way through life instead.  In the context of the parable, we must notice the immeasurable amount of debt owed to the king, and such is our debt to God who loves us and seeks our love in return despite our uncountable sins in disregard of God's word and desires for us.  And each time we return, as one of His sheep, all is forgiven (see the parable of the Prodigal Son).  In our restoration to God and God's communion, God's love is ours regardless of how we have sinned.  Indeed, it is in God's unfailing love that we learn to repent and replace what we've lost in life with His grace.  Looking closely at our recent readings, we find that St. Peter's question to Jesus comes in the context of Christ's prescription for correction within the Church community, and after the one who has sinned has acknowledged what he's done, and so reconciliation becomes possible (see Christ's prescription for mutual correction in the Church in yesterday's reading, above).  Unfortunately, acknowledgement is not always the case.  And yet, in cases where there is no acknowledgement, there is still forgiveness in letting go of such debts to Christ, for it is in Christ that all things are reconciled (Colossians 1:19-20).  Perhaps we would do well to notice that God forgives things that are great, while we are asked to forgive that which is small.  Let us leave our "debts" in God's hands, for God's grace is unlimited, and freely given.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

 

- Matthew 18:21–35 

 

In yesterday's reading, Jesus taught the disciples:  "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish. Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them." 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."   My study Bible tells us that seventy times seven is symbolic of an unlimited amount (seven is a number symbolizing fullness; seventy multiples such fullness).  This is a parable which teaches the need for unlimited forgiveness.  Ten thousand talents is what my study Bible calls an impossible sum; it is more than any laborer could earn in many lifetimes.  A hundred denarii is a small number by comparison but still remains a significant amount by earthly standards -- my study Bible says it amounts to about three months' wages for a contemporary worker.  But it is a pittance compared to the debt which was owed to the king.  It notes that God not only stays the punishment we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  Because God forgives us, we are in turn required to grant the gift of forgiveness to others.  There is another patristic interpretation of this parable given, with regard to the punishment described.  In that interpretation, the man represents the soul, the wife represents the body, and the children represent a person's works or deeds.  So therefore, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery -- to Satan, so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5). 

There are various places where Jesus teaches us the importance of forgiveness, and most notably how much it is required of us.  In the Lord's prayer (Matthew 6:8-15), we pray, "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors," indicating not simply mutual forgiveness but that since this prayer is in the plural ("Our" Father), we're also praying for the forgiveness of others.  Notably, Jesus adds the following statement in giving the prayer, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."  This addition is a clear affirmation of the teaching in today's parable, Christ's strong admonition regarding our own duties of forgiveness if we want to realize the forgiveness given to us.  The parable makes it clear that God's forgiveness is abounding and abundant, and we are to imitate God in this in order to realize our own.  Note that the teaching does not ask us to be a doormat; in context with the teaching on mutual correction in the Church found in yesterday's reading, the process of forgiveness also asks repentance of those who sin against others.  But what seems most significant are the staggering sums of forgiveness of debt in the parable, something which it is literally impossible for us to repay.  If we think about God's forgiveness, the vast need of such forgiveness is also not limited by time.  That is, as human beings prone to error and sin, we have a long way to go in terms of how we could possibly "qualify" to live in harmony with God in God's Kingdom.  Without forgiveness of sin, how would that even be possible?  Therefore the forgiveness of God, given in advance of any repentance on our part, is extraordinary.  However, in order to realize that forgiveness, we must go through our own process of repentance -- and especially in today's teaching by Jesus, our own exercise of forgiveness as well.  Forgiveness is a powerful way to re-establish trust when a trust has been broken; in effect, it is the only way to do so.  Therefore, as God invites us in to a communion with God even though we have strayed away from it and are always tempted to do so in a number of ways, we are continually invited back in.  The nature of a sinful or "fallen" world is simply a type of predetermination that we will sin, incorporating and learning sinful behavior and misleading thinking and habits from what is around us.  But God's forgiveness covers that, as God awaits our own "change of mind" (repentance) and return.  Therefore we are in turn asked to forgive and re-establish relationship or communion with others (a "brother") within the fullness of the communion with God, and the body of Christ (the Church).  While we realize the love and forgiveness on offer to us, our disposition should be to realize that as we are capable of such also.  Within a marriage, for example, such a disposition and habit must be understood as a bedrock for continued good relations in a bond which Jesus describes as "two become one flesh" (see Matthew 19:4-6; not coincidentally part of the text in tomorrow's Gospel reading).  But again, forgiveness is a process that has repentance as part of its structure.  Just as the bad servant realized the amount of his debt, and asked for patience, we also must recognize our own before forgiveness is extended.  Let us note also the phrase in the parable often associated with Jesus' actions:  the master was moved with compassion.  It's important to see that Christ asks us to do the same in turn, just as judgment will also be based on the exercise of this capacity for ourselves (see Matthew 25:31-45).  Moreover, we are to understand that God is offering forgiveness before we realize we need it, but we also must do our own "work" to realize it and receive it.  So it is with compassion and forgiveness; we may offer something as a disposition toward others, but there is a process to reconciliation that asks repentance as well.  In all things, we seek to please God above all, giving our circumstances and difficulties with others up to God for guidance through them.  Here we are given a model of what it is to forgive and what it is to withhold forgiveness even after repentance and the knowledge of our own forgiveness by God.  This is an understanding and attitude made in the heart, a teaching that comes from the love we're given by God to begin with, and hopefully we learn to grow in that love in the heart.  

Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted  to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

 

- Matthew 18:21-35 

 

In yesterday's reading, Jesus taught the disciples, "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them." 

Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted  to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."  My study Bible explains about today's reading that the number given by Jesus, seventy times seven, is symbolic of an unlimited amount.  It notes that this parable illustrates the need for unlimited forgiveness.  Ten thousand talents, the sum owed to the king, is an impossible sum.  It's more than a laborer could earn in many lifetimes (according to one estimate, 200,000 years of labor).  From an earthly perspective, a hundred denarii is also a significant amount of money -- about three months' wages, but a pittance compared to the giant debt owed to the king.   But God does not just stay the punishment that would equal the debt, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  Since God forgives us, we are in turn asked to grant the gift of forgiveness to others. There is also in patristic tradition a spiritual interpretation of the punishment that is described here.  In that view, the man represents the soul, the wife represents the body, and the children represent a person's deeds.  So, therefore, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery -- that is, to Satan, so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).  

What is forgiveness?  Is it full reconciliation?  Here and in the Sermon on the Mount, in the prayer Jesus gives to us that we call "The Lord's Prayer" (Matthew 6:9-15), Jesus likens our sins against others, as well as those committed against us, to debts, when He teaches us to pray, "Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors."  He also uses the illustration of trespass in His admonition about forgiveness He adds afterward.  So debts, in this context, become some shortcoming of our own, some way in which we've harmed or hurt others, or sinned against them.  There are all kinds of sins and sinning that harm others, some deliberate, some even inadvertent if we are going to count a liability for something unintentional.  A careless word, harmful gossip unthinkingly repeated, unintended consequences may result in so much harm to another or to ourselves that one might consider it "owed" back for the detriment done.  So what is the cost of forgiveness?  Are we prepared to give up restitution, or what we think we're owed when there is a sin to us or to our well-being?  But let us look at the formula for correction in the Church given by Jesus in yesterday's reading (see above).  The one committing the sin is called upon to recognize what has been done; the failure to do so will result in the person being ostracized from community.  As the repeated expressions of what that means exactly given by my study Bible indicate, this last result, to be delivered  "to Satan for the destruction of the flesh" in the words of St. Paul (1 Corinthians 5:5), is not seen as punishment.  Rather it is seen as the last hope for correction and recognition of destructive behavior, the last means of coming to salvation.  It seems that the giving up of such debts for mutual forgiveness is a way of maintaining community not simply among us and between us, but under God, and as the Body of Christ.  For ultimately, everything is owed to God, the author of our lives, the Creator, the One "in whom we live and move and have our being" (Acts 17:28).   But what of those who refuse to acknowledge their debt?  Jesus does not acknowledge that in the parable, but rather His emphasis is on forgiveness and our own failure to extend it.  Of course, coming after Jesus' teaching about mutual correction and discipline in the Church, Peter's question is really a focus on relationships with fellow faithful ("my brother").  But what of the rest of our lives, in our highly secular world?  How does one forgive when sin is not acknowledged?  What does that look like, as is so often the case?  If we think of God as the One to whom all is owed, then our extended forgiveness is a kind of contract between ourselves and God.  We don't necessarily need full communion with a person who continues to sin or trespass in some way, as is evidenced in Jesus' formula for mutual correction in the Church.  But nevertheless we are encouraged to forgive in the sense of letting go of the debt, refraining from seeking our own means of punishment.  If we're concerned about justice as a way of equalizing things, penny for penny and pound for pound, then we must take into consideration the aspect of Christ's parable that tells us clearly that this will be the work of God, and is not up to us to do ourselves.  I was once told by an attorney (who handled many inheritance cases) that the only place that justice really happens is in heaven, and this would seem to match up with Christ's parable.  What we take away from His teaching is that we forgive, even if that means we simply place our faith in God to work things out, and give us good things with which to build our lives.  Whether or not an injustice or hurt is recognized on worldly terms, we have a way to follow our faith, and exchange our debts for something better, a trust in God.   Note that in the parable the emphasis is on our initiative to forgive, and not on the failure of others to repent.  Ultimately our agreement is with Christ's heavenly Father, our first relationship of prime importance.  Let us endeavor to maintain this relationship with God as we are taught.

Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell own at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all."  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespass."

 

- Matthew 18:21-35 

 

Yesterday we read that Jesus taught His disciples: "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them." 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven."  My study Bible explains that seventy times seven is an expression which is symbolic of an unlimited amount. 

"Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell own at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all."  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespass."  This parable is an illustration of the need for unlimited forgiveness, my study Bible explains.  Ten thousand talents is an extraordinarily impossible sum, as it is more than a laborer could earn in several lifetimes.  A "talent" (Greek talanton/τάλαντον) was a weight value which measured precious metal such as gold or silver.  A hundred denarii, according to my study Bible, was worth about three months wages, and so is still large sum.  But it's a pittance when compared to the debt owed the king.  My study Bible comments that God not only stays the punishment we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  Because God forgives us, it says, we in turn are required to grant the gift of forgiveness to others.  There is also a spiritual interpretation given to the punishment in patristic commentary.  In this understanding, the man represents the soul, the wife represents the body, and the children represent a person's deeds.  So, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery -- that is, to Satan -- so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).  

In today's parable, Jesus seems to describe a system (if you will) that promises to return to us the same type of treatment we give to others, but this return comes in a spiritual sense.  It is, in that sense, a parable that serves to enforce the logic of what is called the Golden Rule, found in Luke 6:31, in which Jesus teaches that "just as you want men to do to you, you also do to them likewise."  (See this teaching in context at Luke 6:27-31.)  In the Sermon on the Mount it is found at Matthew 7:12, in which Jesus teaches, "Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets" (see in context, Matthew 7:7-12).  But the parable also gives us an added window onto the understanding of the Golden Rule, and that is the measure of forgiveness that God extends to us.  This becomes the basis and the foundation for the understanding of our places in the world, in relationship to others.  Jesus explicitly lays this down as the foundation for understanding how forgiveness must work in our worldly lives, because we are already forgiven so much by God:  therefore the parable is also an illustration of what Jesus calls the Greatest Commandments.  In chapter 22, Jesus is asked what is the greatest commandment in the Law, and He replies, "'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.'  This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'  On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets" (see Matthew 22:36-40).  Once again, we see the pattern taught in the parable:  we begin with our relationship to God, and we must extend within that context our relationship to neighbor.  So when we think of forgiveness, we take our minds from a purely worldly focus on vengeance or even restitution, and take it to a spiritual level in expanding it to the economy of God and our place in God's creation.  We consider how much we are forgiven by the One who holds all things, and it is within that context that we extend forgiveness.  Let us with all appropriate hastiness understand that the things which come to us in life also come from God.  It is a sense in which God is the ultimate "Banker" who holds or controls the wealth of all things; our willingness to forgive is a commitment to God and we expect that it is God who will repay or amend or heal the hurts and trespasses and deficits in our lives caused by harm done to us by others.  Let us also keep in mind that Jesus' parable is told in response to Peter's question, which comes after Jesus has set out a pattern for discipline and mutual correction in the Church (see yesterday's reading, above).  In that pattern, a sin is acknowledged, either in private or in the context of community.  But we often grapple with things we feel have harmed us, or what we believe others should owe to us, which go unacknowledged and unrepented.   And yet, within that context also, Jesus' parable is something to keep in mind, for it remains a kind of understanding of the Golden Rule.  It remains also within the context of the Old Testament and God's word in Moses' Song from Deuteronomy:  "Vengeance is Mine, and recompense" (Deuteronomy 32:35; see in context:  Deuteronomy 32).  St. Paul quotes the same in Romans 12:18-20, a teaching against vengeance and urging effort at a peaceful life.  Let us note closely that in St. Paul's teaching, justice is not neglected either.  We are reliant upon the One who is able to recompense and who forgives us in an inestimable degree in the first place.  Therefore we turn to God first in order to seek a way through life's hurts and difficulties.  The cruel harshness of the unforgiving servant of the parable results only in reaping the same results for himself.  Let us note also that Christ's teaching on forgiveness does not leave out justice; He does not neglect a need for acknowledgment of sin and harm.  But God is our ultimate ground for being and for understanding our places in the world and in creation.  We must keep in mind these teachings as we negotiate our lives through what often feels like a battleground or minefield.  In the Lord's Prayer, Jesus teaches us to pray, "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors" (Matthew 6:12) and He adds at the end of the prayer, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.  But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses" (Matthew 6:14); see in context Matthew 6:8-14.  We are always given teachings about forgiveness in the context of God's forgiveness first, and God's economy of creation.  Jesus teaches us the understanding that our relationships with others fall within the context of our relationship with God; even the "debts" we feel that others have caused us fall within the context of God's purview to recompense and heal for us, so we go to prayer to find good resolution for how to conduct ourselves in response to harm done to us.  Let us consider the things we feel are owed to us, and the significant debt we may incur ourselves without God's guidance for our lives. 

I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven

 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

 

- Matthew 18:21-35 

 

In yesterday's reading, Jesus taught:  "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them." 

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."  My study Bible comments here that the phrase "seventy times seven" is a symbol of an unlimited amount.  The parable is an illustration of the need for unlimited forgiveness, and we must note, is given within the context of the teaching from yesterday's reading about discipline and repentance within the Church (see above).  Ten thousand talents, my study Bible adds, is an imposible sum.  It was more than a laborer could earn in several lifetimes.  A hundred denarii is a significant amount from an earthly perspective (about three months' wages), but it is a tiny amount in comparison to the debt which is owed to the king.  My study Bible comments that God not only stays the punishment we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  As God forgives us, we in turn are required to grant the gift of forgiveness to others ("Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors" - Matthew 6:12).  As to the punishment described here, there are certain patristic interpretations which my study Bible cites.   In this understanding, the man represents the soul, the wife represents the body, and the children represent a person's deeds.  Therefore the body and deeds are given over to slavery -- that is to Satan -- so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5 in context). 

In a modern context, it is not always easy to understand forgiveness.  If forgiveness is expected to be extended, then why does sin matter?  If we are expected to forgive all, then why does God count sin as important?  All of these questions arise out of a misunderstanding of forgiveness in the context of God as Judge.  In the Lord's Prayer (see Matthew 6:9-15), Jesus speaks of sin as "debts."  In a remark immediately following, He speaks in terms of "trespasses."  Debts and trespasses give us two images of sin.  A debt is something that is owed to us, and suggests that something belonging rightfully to us has been taken away.  What can be taken away by others sinning against us?  There can be a sense of honor that has been stripped away by someone's bad act, a kind of injustice rendered that takes justice away from us.  Possibly we have been harmed in some sense, abused, or stolen from, both literally and figuratively.  To trespass is to cross a rightful boundary, to have been violated in some sense, improper conduct once again taking away what rightfully belongs to us, even honor or nominal respect for the integrity of another human being.  Modern psychology frequently speaks of boundary violations in order to characterize abuse of one sort or another, or one degree or another.  But in Jesus' way of thinking, to forgive is literally to "let go," using precisely the same language a banker would use of debts.  Therefore, we "let" and "forgive" to the ultimate Banker who is God, and leave justice and especially vengeance to God (Deuteronomy 32:35, Romans 12:19).  In so doing, we are seeking God's way to walk through the world, and to live the best way we can in context with our experience, even that which has been harmful.  It does not mean necessarily reconciliation with those who would continue to harm, but it does mean "giving up" to God our hurts and debts, so that God may lead us in life.  In today's reading, Peter is asking about forgiveness of a brother within the life of a Church, and it has already been given (in yesterday's reading, above) that this brother has repented within the framework of the Church community, either privately or within a wider scale of the Church.  So, when Peter poses this question, he's asking about the process of reconciliation for community that Jesus has outlined -- and Christ's answer is that the peace of His community must be eternal, forgiveness unlimited.  The parable itself teaches us about God's forgiveness of our many sins, and expresses the notion that we should be aware of this love as the foundation within which we're taught to forgive.  It is, to my way understanding, not an erasure of awareness of debt or trespass.  Rather within the context of recognition of debt we are asked to forgive for the sake of peace and of reconciliation.  It is an understanding of what is called "economia" (οικονόμια), which means basically "proper management," or good and prudent handling of a matter.  The Greek word is related, appropriately, to the word for "steward" (economos/οἰκονόμος).  It indicates an understanding that in practice mercy and forgiveness form a cohesion for community, as opposed to strictly the letter of the law.  It is an extension of the Christ's statement that "the Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath" (Mark 2:27).  It teaches us that, in practice, the salvation of human souls and human lives, and the creation of real community, is a hands-on effort, so to speak.  That is, it is not an abstract principle or rule that suffices, but rather the practice that must bring about a good result, the healing of lives and community, good spiritual fruits in terms of quality of life.  This is why mercy and forgiveness are so important, because without them, nothing will actually work well in the fullness of real lives and living community.  There must be a recognition that God's ultimate concern is in the fullness of life and spiritual fruit, the Kingdom that dwells among us.  So we both acknowledge the truth of trespass and debt, and we also practice forgiveness.  We seek a way to make this work, not simply a process for assigning blame or pointing fingers.  While we bear a little shame (in a phrase oft-used by Fr. Stephen Freeman on his blog to which I link) in terms of acknowledging our fault, and also in forgiving the one who sinned, we gain community in the context of communion with God and neighbor in the Church.  This seems nearly impossible in terms of the whole overwhelming notion of a perfect community, but it does work therapeutically as guideline for how we as believers live our lives and heal from hurt and trauma.  If we can bear in mind that it was Christ who truly took on our pain and suffering, and God who takes on the debts, then we can find relief in the sense that we are both heard and able to move on.  Moreover, we can find the same forgiveness and freedom in the context of our own errors, debts, and trespasses.  But we must be willing to come to the table of communion, where the understanding of the love of God begins, the perspective of Christ's teaching of love of God and love of neighbor, for it only works within that foundation, and in light of Christ's own unfathomable expression of love for us first, and His willingness to suffer for that love.

You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me

 Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

- Matthew 18:21-35

Yesterday we read that Jesus taught:  "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two or you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."

Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven."   Seventy times seven, my study bible says, is symbolic of an unlimited amount.  The parable that follows illustrates the need for unlimited forgiveness.

"Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made."   Ten thousand talents is an extraordinary amount of money, and we should understand it as one impossible for a laborer to pay, even if he could earn money over several lifetimes.  A talent was a certain weight of mineral, gold or silver.  It was also a measure of wealth, about 57 pounds worth of pure silver.  A single talent could equal many years of one laborer's work.   There is a spiritual interpretation also offered by some patristic writers to the punishment described here.  My study bible describes it as follows:  the man represents the soul, the wife represents the body, and the children represent the deeds of a person.  In this sense of understanding, the body and the deeds are given over to slavery, that is to Satan, so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).

"The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."   The hundred denarii owed to the wicked servant is a significant amount (about three months' wages, according to my study bible).  But it's tiny compared to the original debt of ten thousand talents that was forgiven buy the king  (one talent equaled about 6,000 denarii).   My study bible comments that God not only stays the punishment that we deserve, but forgives us the entire debt as well.  As God forgives us, we in turn are required to grant that gift to others (Matthew 6:12, 15).

It's interesting to note how Jesus rather subtly acknowledges the injustice of mammon in today's reading and especially in the parable that He gives.  Using figuratively the images of money owed by various servants, the parable teaches us something about the world in which Jesus lived.  But His real point here is not about the injustice of mammon.  It is rather about how we, as Christians, must live by a different set of rules in relation to our Creator and our brothers and sisters (as Jesus has been speaking to the disciples in the context of the community of the Church).  In a sense, He is using images of wealth and money in order to illustrate how those "rules" of mammon (including a reference to selling and a form of enslavement) do not apply to us as Christians; that is, we are to live by a different code of values.   Our values include something that doesn't make sense except in a rather more sophisticated idea about commerce -- the forgiveness of debt.  What is a debt?  It's something that someone owes us.  When we think about the ways in which others might owe us, due to offenses committed in some way, we might need to wrap our minds about what we think has been taken away from us through such offense.  When a very serious offense like child abuse is committed, we often say it has the effect of stealing a child's innocence (and by the way this may be true no matter what type of abuse we're talking about).  It may leave lasting psychic scars, in fact frequently becoming more potent as time goes on and into the latest stage of life.  I might add that I saw this happen to my own grandmother, a survivor of the Armenian Genocide, whose traumatic early experiences really came to impact her after she was in her late 70s.  This is a spiritual debt caused by violence, another possible character trait of what we'll call mammon.  How was my grandmother to forgive those who had tortured her father to death while she was forced to watch, who caused her mother's child to be stillborn and mother to die of typhus, or those who systematically exterminated her people?  We might find it hard to imagine such trauma as forgivable and even survivable -- and yet it was so for her entire generation of children.  In this sense, we must take what Jesus says and understand forgiveness as something very simple:  by "giving up" a debt we give it up to God, especially in the prayer to Our Father, also known as the Lord's Prayer.  This is one reason why it is so important to pray this prayer daily.  To forgive a debt (or to "let go" as the original Greek word means) does not mean we deny that injustice has happened.  It is the furthest thing from denying the long lasting effects of such debts.  In fact, it is in the process of acknowledging and "giving up" the debt to God that we might find hope to come to terms with truly facing the effects of what has happened to us.  To give up harm and trauma to God is not to deny it, but rather it is just the opposite.  It is putting something nearly impossible for us to deal with on our own in a good and helpful way into the hands of God to heal, guide, and avenge, rather than ourselves.  It is asking God to guide us in our response to the debt owed to us, and to the best ways for us to heal and live "whole" lives, freed from what has in some way diminished us and taken something away from us.  It is a plea to be freed of the longterm cage of rage and grief.  This is the real power of forgiveness.  It is a response in the place of the limited prison of personal vengeance.  "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord.  The violence of the wicked servant upon the one who owes him less money than he owed to the king is an illustration of the unjust thinking of sheer vengeance and its impact on the community overall.  In giving up our debts to God, we do not give up all recourse to justice.  We simply ask God to handle it, and to give us guidance for the best way to proceed in life.  That entails an extremely pragmatic way of looking at the world and our options, and also the possibilities God offers us in creating and shaping our lives in the face of injustice and long-lasting trauma.  It is liberation into the place of possibility, a realistic reckoning of what might be best for us and for those whom we love including in our community, and it is also a way to ask God for what it is we truly need.  It is a way to ask God to help us with the blindness of our own rage and anger, and to ask for constructive healthful solutions.  In short, forgiving a debt is liberation for our souls, and it is also something we work at daily.  In the Lord's Prayer, we are taught to pray daily for the daily bread of the life of God, and therefore the prayer to both forgive and to be forgiven is indicated as a daily activity, sometimes much more than once a day depending on our deepest need.  Let us not forget that Christ does not refuse our debts, nor does He refuse to acknowledge our hurts and injustice committed against us.  In fact, this parable declares the opposite.  He is simply giving us, yet again, a way through this world dominated by mammon, and a sense of what we ourselves can be when we participate instead in the life He offers us, and with His rules that defy mammon -- that even turned the injustice of the Cross into liberation and salvation for the whole world, and for all of us who would come to Him in faith.  Let us be aware of the daily help we need and where it might lead us; let us remember why we always need to pray.  It is easy to overlook how much we ourselves need to be forgiven, even for things we've done that we did not understand.  There are all kinds of ways in which we may hurt others without being aware of it.  Our prayer is for our own debts to be forgiven, as we forgive others.  The release from the hardship of mammon therefore is total.  Let us remember that even in business, debts that cannot be recouped are forgiven.  So much of what we go through cannot be restored to us in a material or worldly sense.  That is yet one other way we need to participate in the life of Christ to recognize our true potential, and where it lives.

I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven

Christ the Good Shepherd c. 425 AD, Mosaic, Mausoleum of Galla Placidia, Ravenna

Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.  Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."

- Matthew 18:21-35

In yesterday's reading, Jesus taught His disciples, "Take heed that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that in heaven their angels always see the face of My Father who is in heaven.  For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.  What do you think?  If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine and go to the mountains to seek the one that is straying?  And if he should find it, assuredly, I say to you, he rejoices more over that sheep than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray.  Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.  Moreover if your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.  If he hears you, you have gained your brother.  But if he will not hear, take with you one or two more, that 'by the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.'  And if he refuses to hear them, tell it to the church.  But if he refuses even to hear the church, let him be to you like a heathen and a tax collector.  Assuredly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.  Again I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.  For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them."

Then Peter came to Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him?  Up to seven times?"  Jesus said to him, "I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven."  My study bible says this expression, seventy times seven, is symbolic of an unlimited amount.

"Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants.  And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents.  But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made.  The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, 'Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.  But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, 'Pay me what you owe!'  So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, 'Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.'  And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt.  So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done.  Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant!  I forgave you all that debt because you begged me.  Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?'  And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.  So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses."  Ten thousand talents is described by my study bible as an impossible sum, more than a laborer could earn in several lifetimes.  A hundred denarii would be an important amount in a worldly perspective (about three months' wages, according to my study bible), but it's a tiny amount in comparison to the debt that was owed to the king.  In terms of our own "debts" as in the Lord's Prayer, God stays punishment and forgives the entire debt as well.  In turn, my study bible says, we are required to grant the gift of forgiveness to others.  Regarding the punishment first declared by the master ("his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made"), there is an additional spiritual interpretation found in patristic commentary.   In this perspective, the man represents the soul, the wife the body, and the children a person's works or deeds.  So therefore, in this punishment, the body and deeds are given over to slavery -- that is, to Satan -- so that the soul might possibly be saved (see 1 Corinthians 5:5).  This interpretation fits with the instructions that Christ gave in yesterday's reading for mutual correction in the Church, with separation from the Church as last resort -- a type of medicine to hopefully bring about reconsideration, repentance.

My study bible's mention of the spiritual interpretation of the punishment as initially given by the king is an interesting one, especially in light of the understanding from yesterday's reading -- that separation from the Church, as last resort for one who is unrepentant, is actually meant as corrective medicine.  In other words, such a state of separation, when all other means have failed, is thought to be the only experience that can bring about a reconsideration of one's acts, a change of mind (which is literally what the Greek word for repentance means).  In this case, we see that it immediately results in the repentance of the man who owed the king his huge sum, and he begs for forgiveness of the debt, and so immediately receives great mercy.  But his hardness of heart shows in his subsequent treatment of others, and so he eventually winds up with "torture" until all is paid, another symbolic representation of what it is to be cast out from the merciful life of the Kingdom and under the sway of the "ruler of this world."  Torture, after all, is what the devil does; the word for "evil" or "evil one" in the Greek (as used in the Lord's Prayer, when we pray "deliver us from evil") is πονηρός/poneros.  It literally means "pain" or "agony."  So what good could it possibly do, as in St. Paul's words in 1 Corinthians 5:5, to "deliver one to Satan for the destruction of the flesh"?  In some sense, it reminds us of the "tough love" sometimes used in interventions for addiction as a last resort -- as when family members are asked to stop supporting a lifestyle that contributes to addiction.  The resulting difficulties will hopefully encourage the addicted person to recognize and come to terms with the dire nature of their circumstances and truly seek healing.  As we are in a season of giving thanks in some countries (in the United States, the Thanksgiving holiday is next week), and a time historically associated with harvest festivals and looking toward the celebration of the birth of Christ, it might be a perfect time to think about all the merciful things we receive through our faith that are so often easily overlooked.   Each of us has particular experiences of our faith, but if one looks back upon the loving nature of God experienced through Christ, then we may truly want to consider what it means to be inside of this loving embrace, as contrasted with living without it.  Through prayer, we may find that the hardness we experience in the world is ameliorated by the experience of love and even confidence we find in private time with our Lord.  Within the context of our faith, we find good guidance for our lives, medicines for dealing with setbacks and hardship, like, for example, the prescription of humility which has so many surprising benefits to our whole orientation in life.  Outside of such a gracious spiritual influence, we might find a seemingly enticing but entirely different experience of life where this mercy is missing.  It's easy to take for granted the love of God, but far less so when one has experienced life without it.   Like the Prodigal Son, our times of "torture" or pain when we're off the path God would set for us may come to be a good corrective influence.  Without benefit of the loving nature of the One who would set out to rescue the single straying sheep, we may come to know life only through the hardness of heart that seems at times to define the worldly.  The popular psychologist Dr. Phil describes a proper home as "a soft place to fall."  Everybody may not have this kind of worldly home, but within the loving embrace of God and God's extended family of the communion of saints, we all truly have such a home for our hearts, living and present and spiritually holding us.   Our own experience of life really depends on our awareness and potential for this realization.  So many must experience life without it in order to return and understand its true worth to them.  Let us be thankful for the grace of love which waits for us all, and informs us in turn of our own capacity to share that mercy with others.